| Hey guys, I think its time to acknowledge the 2 most important question's in pick-up. Why are you pursuing this? and, Is this the right angle to pursue it from? First let me explain why I feel these questions are the most important questions we MUST ask ourselves...
For a long time my answer to this first question was, because I wanted to get laid as much as possible...I wanted to FUCK! This makes perfect sense...we all want to fuck...it feels good...why not?? But this mindset sent me down a very miserable path for a couple months. Why? Because I WANTED to fuck, I WANTED to pull mad girls, I WANTED this I WANTED that. This state of mind sets the foundation of lack for ourselves, when we don't fuck we WANT to fuck because we lack fucking, when we fuck we WANT to fuck more because there is more we don't HAVE. This has enormous potential of sending us into a path of self-criticism, and does nothing to help us feel better about who we are. It's synonymous with a writer who writes books that he has no intrinsic desire to write, but will bring in the money, as opposed to writing whatever he truly needs to express...it will do nothing for the writer this way...he ignores his inner self because he thinks outer things will make his inner self feel better...he is taking the long way to happiness, and probably will never get there...this is spiritual shit, but logically as well, it doesn't make sense. Guys, this wanting state will only fuck us over in the long run, we can chase it for years and then finally discover that we need to back track a shit load to get on the right trail, or in a lot of cases give up and continue hiking the wrong trail for the rest of our lives. This wanting state of mind can also come from the desire to find someone to complete us as well...which fucking corrupted my mind all through high-school...if only i knew. I have finally figured out what is so beautiful about pick-up...thats right, i used the adjective beautiful for pick-up. The beauty (at least for me) in pick-up is that it's not entirely about pick-up...but pick-up is a means of improving oneself...not with women, not even with extroversion...but complete secureness in one's true self. Let me explain further.
I have learned a couple things while living in my short time. First, breaking out of your comfort zone is a great way to expand your horizons, life opportunities, confidence, self-esteem etc. by exercising the dark corners in your mind that would otherwise be ignored...pick-up pushes us to do this. Second in order to truly master women, and to truly experience the joy of a girl liking you for YOU...you must improve YOU...NOT YOUR GAME BUT YOU!!! this way you TRULY enjoy meeting and interacting with other humans because you are doing it as you, as opposed to the fucking armor which is your game!! So Pick-Up can be a good measure of the improvements you have made with your inner self...girls WILL sense this shit...especially high value girls. How do we improve ourselves...we trust our realities, we are confident, nonreactive and self-amusing...all things that pick-up stresses!!
Think about it what do you want most out of life?? If it's something like money ask yourself why, then keep asking why and I bet you will get to the end...which is, because it will make you happy. Ex. I want to own a business...why? cause i want money...why? cause i want to be able to buy mad cool shit...why? cause i want to pull mad girls with my mad cool shit...why? cause with a business, cool shit, girls, money i will be HAPPY. So why don't we just cut the shit and find happiness in itself? After all thats what pick-up should be about...inner game, which can be translated to inner self, which then can be translated to inner happiness. Instead of taking some fucked up root to happiness lets take the simple one...learning to love ourselves, this world and this moment...it's something we can adapt to if we keep that seed planted and not get off track.
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