as anyone tried this? I think he has some good techniques,but like when he tells you to visualise how the 40 ft tall, superconfident(or something) you would talk to a girl, what he would say and stuff, for me its just impossible,because I have no idea what to say to a woman. its more than just the fear of the approach itself. so how am I supposed to visualize that a successull person is doing it, when I have no idea how its done??
but to me, it seems like he expects you to know what to say to a complete stranger....
so I guess Im lacking something before I can get anything out of ross jeffries confidence building tape?

I am certain that more than me as this problem. even if I had no fear at all about approaching a girl, Im just no good at starting a conversation with a complete stranger.

Ross Jeffries is more about building an inner-game that is SO STRONG that you don't even need to focus on outer game all that much. Unstoppable confidence is good. You should watch fear into charisma.

As for the forty ft. tall person - don't worry what you're saying. Just picture yourself but enormous, confident, and successful with any woman you want. I picture myself walking into a club and not even talking, but just winking at a girl - and then she starts giggling and talking to her friends who all push her over to me.

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You're not gonna be having any less sex with her if you don't talk to her.

Amen.
(i did that just to bump the topic, tee hee)

fear into charisma and unstoppable confidence both showed me results. affirmations seem to be where it's at for me.

are these videos you can get or ebooks? let me know which ones should i get? thanks

its a 7 part audio set.

Another one is 'Paul Mckenna - Instant Confidence'.

My inner game is good but i like to try everything, anyway i put this on the other night and it was really weird, i actually woke up when he said too at the end of the audio, i don't even remember going into the trance or whatever it was, but i can recall parts of what he was saying...

NLP and self-hypno stuff really does help. But if you feel like you need to know what to say, learn a few canned openers and keep them as a plan B. You might never need them, but if that's the missing piece that will make you feel confident, go for it.

I think Ross Jeffries has some very helpful materials.

Good luck.

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has it helped you? what do you best suggest i start off with??

I personally don't use his picking up chicks routines, but more power to anyone this works for. I like his self-confidence stuff.
At this point, I've read so much of his stuff and watched so much of his video I can't remember where the stuff I found useful was. There was one where he did a routine with a ball of energy being shot into a basketball hoop that was cool. You might want to "sample" whats available online before you spend the big bucks.

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I looked through my 8 trillion videos and found the one I was talking about with the basketball thing. Fear into Charisma.

Ross needs to hire a decent videographer and sound person, but what he teaches can be very helpful, poor video quality notwithstanding.

You might want to type "Fear into Charisma" into Google and see what pops up.

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What do you guys think of Deangelo for confidence building compared to ross jeffries?

It's tough to compare. Jeffries has an actual practical tool that he teaches with his NLP stuff. For some people that can work well, for others, it will seem like new age nonsense.

DeAngelo seems to talk a lot about being confident, having observing ego, and maintaining boundaries, but never seems to give the tools to do this. So you can sit there for 7 hours nodding your head at his ideas, and still be left wondering what to do to put it into practice. (I'm referring here specifically to his Deep Inner Game series).

I can tell you, one way to develop observing ego is through daily meditation. That's why it's a cornerstone of my own Zen approach. It's a very simple technique anyone can use, and it will positively effect many aspects of your Game and your life.

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Enjoyed reading this. I love NLP.

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i agree with that.I thought it was just me but it seems deep inner game was only made as an add to get people to go and buy dr pauls stuff,I think i might try ross jeffries

Ross knows what he is talking about. Get his audio series, it will help your game out tremendously if you do the simple exercises he outlines in his tapes.

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