Hi guys,

sorry if some of you take this as being negative, but I can't help but feeling this way. I had three day2's in just over one week. My game is getting tighter and I get more confident in all kinds of ways when it comes to pick up. Having the three day 2's therefore was something I felt quite good about beforehand. But now that they are gone I feel shitty. The explanation:

1. last week on a thursday I went to a businessparty for work in a different town. I messaged a woman I've seen before that lives closeby that i'd be in town and asked her if we could hook up. She said no because of having a previous engegement, but called me when I was at the party to say that she was "available anyway, but felt a bit tired and out of her usual self" The whole thing felt like a stupid shit-test and the night, despite some good kissing, turned into a big dissapointment. All I got was a lot of negative energy and by the time I realised I should punish her for it or just walk away, it was too late. I even asked if I could sleep over (f-ing AFC) and she started becoming really distant and awkward about the whole thing. Long story short, a bad night. I was glad I could get in my car and escape in music and some highway driving.

2. A HB 8 I met in a bar. She already cancelled a date earlier date... I was going to fry fish for her on wednesday. I bought some fresh fish at 13:00 and I called her at 16:30 to tell her I would be at her place at 19:00

Bucc: Hi there, I'll be at your place at 19:00
HB8: oooooww, darn... I forgot... some friends of mine are coming over.
Bucc: (WFT?) well, I already bought the fish...
HB8: mmmm, well its okay... but my friends are there also and were giving a party. You really don't mind?
Bucc: Nope, see in a couple of hours.
-bucc hangs up phone-
Bucc: you f-ing biaaaatch! Bringin in cockblockers like that!!!

You'll understand this wasn't going anywhere romantic. I didn't mind, cause I had lots of fun with her friends, but guess what? She starts drinking cocktails like shes doing a contest or something... And around 10:30 the biggest mofo joint, packed with hasj comes on the table and around 23:00 she's stoned like a shrimp. I thought: WTF? she has to go to work at 7 in the morning and she's just wasted. No shame or whatsoever. Almost like she did it on purpose. We agreed on having a good date, one-on-one in a few weeks, but I'm having second thoughts.

3. takes the cake. A HB 6... who started teasing me on facebook a little. I picked up the tease, turned it against her with feroucious force and persueded her to do a day 2 with me today.

I tried to pick her up two weeks ago when I was drunk. she totally blew me off, and a friend of mine ran some game afterwards and kissclosed her. The thing is, sometimes he lies about this, and no one saw him do this. So, since she started attacking me through facebook I thought it was just another of his lies. Today I met up with her and in the first 10 minutes of the conversation I addressed this. I stated that he lies about this a lot and she "kind of" agreed to that. And we agreed it did not happen. Feeling confident about this, I worked my PUA ass of for about 3 hours and almost kiss close her in the end. When she all of the sudden says she wants to take it slow.... thats OK... but then she pauses and admits she DID kiss my friend. Now at that point I was cool with that, but I just can believe she tricked me and lied like that in the first three hours together...It just felt sick! She was obviously afraid and insecure, but that just turns her in to a scared little child that runs from her feelings and responsability.

I'm sorry guys, but these three girls (HBnosleepover, HBstonedshrimp and HBfearfulliar) just gave me a heavy touch of evil. Like i've been walking on the dark side... They attracted me, but the day two's just gave me a lot of agony.

I'd really appreciate some motivating comments. Perhaps there is some inner-game thing I have overlooked. You'll understand I'm not really keen on even talking to a woman right now

Please enlighten me, thanks in advance.

Buccaneer.

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Well... Thanks for scaring me... to an extent..

Why not try to ask her to coffee, meet at a bookstore and then go to the beach or something... Sounds like you're setting up a day 4 lol =] Personally I like to meet the girls at a plaza, buy myself a caramel pretzel then go down a street in search for the best cafe, ect. My best wingman is my cat... I just say that I have a cat, and they know that I live close to the "cafe street" I'm talking about and beg to come in to see it. =]
I don't know it really depends.
Day 2 can be awesome, or suck. I remember as a kid my first girlfriend dumped me on day 2... made me not want to interact with women for two years.

haha

great reading back this post from a while back. In the heat of it all it got so negative for me. But now that I'm a bit further down the road. Including with these three chicks. Let me shed some golden light on this.

1 (HBnosleepover). Turns out she was cheating on her boyfriend with me. She never told me. But shes not that smart with her facebook messages I'm afraid. I even think she did it just to get pregnant! (keep m covered guys!) Flaked on each other.

2. (HB stonedlikeashrimp). Called me later and explained she had a huge affair with a coworker and thats why she tried to keep postponing the day2's. I was her number 2 guy. Number 1guy however never told her he had a girlfriend haha. She found out when his girlfriend texted HB stonedlikeashrimp he wasnt coming for diner haha. Flaked on me anayway, so the dude probably chose her. And she was afraid to tell me or something. He could have been a good sport and give me the number of his sad and alone ex-girl

3. (HBfearfullliar). Total headcase. But I F-closed her, later on. I'm a lazy gamer sometimes and this was just to easy. She tried to LJBF me later, so I told her all deals were off. I told her straight up that I have plenty of friends, just not enough people in my life I can have sex with. That's right honey, do the moves or get outta my house!

great sailing with you guys. Hope you're a little less scared now nikkisixx

greetz Bucc.

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson