I've seen a lot of positive notes on this subject here, and I am in no way trying to spark a huge, blasphemous debate on the "correct" attitude/outlook as I feel it's a matter of opinion. Here is mine, because what has been said in a lot of other posts on the subject is simply not how I view things. My experiences with women are as follows:

When I was 15 I met a girl (also 15) who basically pushed me into sex. This aggression would become a recurring theme with the girls I dated/slept with. Met my second girlfriend when I was 17. She was 16 and after sleeping with her she told me I was the 14th guy she had slept with... at 16. They say mulitply that times 3 to get the real number? I'd rather not lol. Next girlfriend I stole from a guy I knew, not because I liked her but because I hated the guy and it felt good because I knew how bad it pissed him off. She promptly left after 2 weeks of me not calling/being interested in her, but would never forget me. She tried to hook back up with me years later when I admitted the real reason I had dated her back in high school. The next 2 girls I slept with coincidentally had fiances at the time, whom they would both end up marrying after I had gotten tired of sleeping with them. After all, their men were family-oriented, I was not. Apparently that is what turns women on, but they also need to hang on to their AFC guy because he takes care of them in other departments. Next was a friend's wife who decided to get drunk and come and visit me while my friend was away in boot camp (Bad, bad form, I know. But he divorced her later, punched me in the face, and we're even closer friends now.) After that mess, 2 more women, one 22 and one 32, both in committed relationships they would go right back into when I was done with them... and as a side note, both of these women were nearly psychotically freaky in bed, and I have a hunch that neither of them were ever as adventurous with their boyfriends. There were a few others not worth mentioning, but all equally devious/deceptive. And as I would learn when I was 25, my mother (who divorced my father when I was younger) admitted to me she had cheated on my father, who had always been faithful and supportive.

Chock it up to karma that I would meet a girl I would truly fall in love with, begin to regret my past transgressions, and become a romantic "hero of a guy" for. Casting aside my former, darker estimations concerning the morality/nature of women in general, I went all in, got a tattoo of her name, and decided I was going to propose to her. In general it was just how incredibly loving and romantic she was by words and disposition that made me relax all of my preconceptions. Long story short, we were together for four years, and in that time she cheated on me with a guy she worked with numerous times, and upon finding out I promplty broke up with her. That was a little over 2 weeks ago now, and I have confirmed she is now in a relationship with him and stripping at a local trashy trucker establishment.

So if you were to ask me... am I bitter? Definitely. Am I now Ted Bundy? Of course not... but I would be a liar if I said that I didn't understand. To summarize and make my point, I don't feel that I have somehow consistently had bad luck when rolling the dice (as I had read one poster label it), I simply do not believe modern women possess any such capacity of decency, though to their credit i will say that perhaps some of them may wish that they did. My philosophy - adore the beauty of women, know how to be attractive to them, give them exactly what it is that makes you and them happy, and then give them back to the chump that is willing to buy the bullshit they're selling. I sleep with attractive women, but I am married to digital photography, creating music, and video games.

I forgot to mention that if you think I'm a bad guy it's important to know that I have never cheated on or lied to anyone I have been involved with, as I am partial to both my integrity and my self-respect. Thank you for reading my story I know it was lengthy but I felt it necessary to offer a somewhat alternate view.

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Nice! Having that very opinion is what makes women attracted to you. It makes you indifferent and gives you high status (as in higher status then her) which women find very attractive. Why? Because it is the complete opposite of what 95% of guys do. Most men have a very high opinion of women, to the point where they take her and put her on a pedestal to admire her. That's the wussy thing to do, which women find very unattractive. And that is what you did with that girl that cheated on you. You basically stopped giving her what made her attracted to you in the first place and started giving her what 95% percent of the guys gave her before hand. No wonder she cheated on you and rightfully so! A good woman will NEVER cheat on you as long as you stay to true your end of the attraction bargain.

Anyways, I like to treat a woman like she is my little annoying brat sister. Not a very healthy thing to do, because women will become so obsessed with you to the point where they are stalking you. But the sex is great! The point is, I am just given them what they want. And you have been doing that to, so keep doing it and don't let love get in the way.

Btw, love that last note about being married to your purpose in life. I am going to use that on my first dates from now on.

Um i think your completly missing the point here. I have had many simalar experiences and its really kinda sad that women are like this. The point in question here is def not how to get women attracted to you its why are women so god dam evil?

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Thank you for writing your story. I am not going to spell check this so please forgive me in advance.

I think you are hurting right now. I understand your man. I think you are intelligent and have a lot to offer women. I hope you believe that about yourself.

I don't want to give you advice because it might offend you. So, I will just tell you that you are going to be O.K. and I want you to be happy with the person you are. You will find a girl that you can trust. Don't give up on women.

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I think this is an interesting topic.

Though I wouldn't advocate misogyny (thoughts of old NWA songs about bitches and hoes come to mind) it is good not to exalt women too much. They're people. They're weaker than us, socially disadvantaged, weird little persons much of the time.

I don't believe women are evil but they are subject to emotions and social pressure just as men are.
some women will pursue what they believe they want and need even is it means having a shag with a random guy that provides that and putting there ring back on & go back to being a (house)wife.
but then again that is just my opinion

>Nith