| Ok, so what does it take to be really good with meeting women? Is it looks? Is it money? Is it fame?
While those things CAN help, and probably will help, I am a deep believer in INNER GAME.
Did you ever heard of the definition of a healthy personality?
YOU ARE AS HEALTY AS YOUR ABILITY TO GET ALONG WITH LARGE NUMBER OF PEOPLE. The less people you can get along with, the less healthier personality you are.
Wow. When I heard that for the first time, I was like.. O, ok..
I started to look at myself for how many people I can get along with. My discovery: Very few.
It was from that day on, that I started working on IMPROVING MYSELF.
And the more I work on ME, the more and more people I can get along with.
And the number is bigger and bigger every day.
So, the real success with REAL women comes from working on IMPROVING yourself in every area.
EXCERCISE NO. 1
Im gonna give you a clue that has taken me a long time to figure out. The number one way to speed up your growth as a person. It is the fastest and the easiest way.
Go to somebody that you trust, but will not save your emotions. Go to somebody that can be brutally honest.
Than, ask him to do this for you.
"Tell me, what kind of a person am I, what are the things that you see on me, that I dont see on myself? And please, be brutally honest, if youre not, that youre screwing me. Be ruthless. "
What ever he tells you, writte it down. Writte good sides and write bad sides.
When hes done, say thanks, and start working on those bad sides.
EXCERCISE NO. 2
Second clue.
Think of a person that you like. A person that you admire.
Now, writte down all the qualities that you admire on him.
Now think of a person you dont like, you despise and writte down all the qualities you hate on that person.
Do not read further unless you have done this. I am serious. Grab a pen and paper and DO IT. it takes you like 2 minutes. C`mon do it.
You did it? Great. If not, youre an a-hole. DO IT!!!
Now look at this list of qualities. ALL the qualities, are YOUR qualities. It is a mirror picture of you. Stunning ha.
The qualities that you admire on other person are really your qualities that youre not letting shine through you. And all the qualities that you hate are your shadows that you dont know how to deal with and controll.
Your job is to work on INTEGRATING all of those qualities that you hate and to let those qualities that you admire shine through you.
But how?
EXCERCISE NO. 3
First, you have go to accept, that the qualities are you. You have to look yourself in the mirror and say every single quality about yourself.
Lets say, you hate a specific person because he is a hipocrit. Look at yourself in the mirror and say: "I accept, that I am a hipocrit sometimes" The last time I was a hipocrit was(..........writte down the last time you were a hipocrit............).
Than ask yourself. What can I do next time, so I will be true to myself and not be a hipocrit? Next time I see myself being a hipocrit, Im gonna STOP, and say to everybody.. "I just started to act like a hipocrit. Im not gonna do that anymore. Lets continue."
Every time you deal with one of your quality that you hate, you gain confidence.
You will get respect, and you will grow as a person. I promisse you. I give you my word. I give you my vaul. Shit I ran out of stuff to promisse. Very Happy
Ok, so heres what I want you to do. I really mean that. I want you to REPORT your experience with the exercise, and I want you to report it like this:
1. How did your friend reacted when you said to him to be honest with you?
2. What is the number one quality that you hate on others and how did you deal with that quality?
3. How do you feel after doing this exercise, is you confidence any stronger?
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