I come on and off this site every now and then, I havent been on in a few months though.

In the meanwhile I had a couple Experiences that surprised me.

I just got outta high school, I'm 19 now, And I've had some low self esteem/social anxiety type problems for the longest. I still dont go to clubs or parties cuz I'm deathly afraid of having attention on me if a girl tries to dance or something.

But Boyyyy... lemme Tell You..., See, I never really Attempted to talk to alot of girls, or to go for it, cuz I just convinced myself that I was at a certain level, and they were just higher value than me. mannn... I spoke to a couple chicks that knew me, or even saw me around school & like... Now That I'm more confident, I flirt more, and I'm not so scared to go for it.... & The shit These Females have told me is crazy... Like... The first was on myspace, And She told me she always liked me... But I never made the move, Another one was telling me how she always wanted to talk to me, but She felt like I didnt like her Cuz I was quiet around her, And the last one actually went as far as to say "I used to check you out all the time, I'd be on the phone w/ my friend And Tell Her About you whenever I would see you jogging, (she lived in my neighborhood)Its crazy, cuz Even Though I had a boy friend, If You had talked to me at that time, I probably would have fucked you"

So the moral of the story is... Go For It... You never know who's checking you out.. And I got confidence problems baddd, So.. Take it from me... Not every girl is guaranteed to like you, But it never hurt to try...