| Hey guys ,
PS: This post contains some religious aspects of my life , if you dont agree with my religous prespective thats your opinion otherwise share your thoughts and opinions.
Life , what is life ? I came to the conclusion that life is a total mystery in all things , to take upon a certain system of beleif is up to a persons own perception on life and his morals.
When it comes down to me personally , I am a beleiver in a great entity that controls everything in this universe , call it god energy whatever its indescribable. But there is an order in this universe and for every action there is a reaction. I beleive that there is reason and moral behind everything that happens daily if not for you but for someone else , life is a big chess we all colaborate to teach each other and fill each others life with experiences.
Since I have recently been focused on a certain religious practices in my life more specifically islam perspective on a way of looking into life I have come upon some ideas that may not agree with the general public view on sexuality.
Some of my own personal views is the following:
1- Sex is a natural part of humanity to abstain or ignore it may cause harmfull effects on ones psychology and life in general.
2- Sex as with us humans takes a different shape or form in relation to most of creatures on this planet , humans enjoy sex and its a powerfull drive to motivate a person into action. Sex in general is considered an act of increasing offspring in most biological enviroment but when it comes to human its both an act of increasings ones offspring and pleasure.
3-When it comes down to men , we are made polygamists by nature. You can be married to the most beautifull women in the world but the next day you find another that takes your attention. Thus I beleive in Polygimist marriage if under certain laws of society it forbids a man to act upon his own nature then it is harmfull.
4- Women LOVE sex the same way we do , but they love other things that comes with it. I have been reading lots of books on rape in prison YES and one of the reasons why the weaklings of men seek refuge under their so called "daddy" in prison is to find security and access to resources. Now we are talking about men who are like you and me with no feminine characteristics what so ever thus you can imagine what a female looks for in a man in the real world , not just sex as a pleasure but the chance to be with a man who provides security love / in otherwords comfort and understanding, and access to resources (may it be householding , money or physical attributions)
5- Women love to be dominated by men , the problem is that men cannot dominate their own self or find a passage for themselves in this life. Sometimes I think to myself if life was like it was more than 1000 years ago would I be able to survive in the real world out there , if the answer is no then no women would want to choose me as a partner if the answer is yes then your dominant frame is coexisting with your personality and that is an attractive switch to females.
6- A man must be build to conques his fears and thoughts , we assume that thoughts are just a one second idea that pops in our head ever now and then , truth be told its an idea that lived with you since you were born , if you can conquer that idea and prove it otherwise to yourself then you are by nature leading yourself and one who is leading his own self is one who can lead another.
7- The universe works in mysterious ways however sitting down and thinking your going to have a great girlfriend because you deserve is only step one. I was amazed when I stumbled upon this community as there were people like me out there who are deep in thought and in their feelings as well , there are people you can talk to about the failures you had and they would only be open and honest about their and show you that your not the only human out there there are others.
8- As I said before I believe in things happening for a reason , although till now I have not yet discovered the reason for me stumblin upon this community but I have found that this community not only strengthens you in your relationships with women but your relationship with yourself (and in my case with my religous beleif) now my current mission is to parallel or even direct my PUA goals and motives with my own personal religous motives. I honestly dont beleif in one night stands ot any sort of sexual behaviour that is built upon mere desire , yes it happens but not in my world. I beleive that in order for sex to take place with the pieces in the right place a connection should be established not with the women but with yourself. Meaning , if Im acting upon an act that contradicts my own personal value and moral then that act is not an act of success but an act of failure. Find what suits best to you , I recon some people dont think about such things and act upon the act of desire yet they somehow fall to the right piece in the puzzle of finding a truely healthy relationship and life. It happens since we are all different but in my case its not.
9-I dont beleive a man should be outside the boundaries of lustfullness and desire, meaning I have met women who liked a man for not following his own desire like an animal , but choosing it wisely. A wise person told me once " A true man is not one who follows desire without mind , but mind with desire" and I beleive that in the presence of a female you should act upon abstainance , thats right act upon it untill something other than desire brings your attention to that female. It could be anything either tangible or not , its up to you but abstain yourself in simple something caught your eye about her.
Please feel free to discuss such deep rising thoughts with me I love to share other prespectives as well.
Your brother in arms ,
AVK
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CHAT