Alright so I would be one to say that I dont have the perfect Inner Game but I have pretty damn good Inner Game from life. Id like to think I am pretty wise for my age, and if you have a problem with my tonality and think I might be showing off or whatever I dont give a fuck.

I just had a very empowering convorsation with one of few people who click with me in life. A good friend and a natural Alpha male. His inner game is very strong, hes been through alot for an 18 year old and learnt alot the hard way. This is one of the reason why both of us click so well. Over the last year I have disscovered myself in so many ways and developed my Inner game through going through alot of pain and suffering.

Tyler Durden, this name hold some significance in this community for the PUA but im looking now to Tyler Durden the character from Fight Club. Especially one quote:
This is an excellent quote to learn by. I am now going to share some of my life lessons with you guys. I hope some of you learn from them and see past the novalty and sometimes stupidity of them. For all I know most people go through this when they reach my age or whatever. Im not afraid to just put it out there and take some critisisim. Thats Alpha.

Here is one lesson i leant and so did my good friend: this is him speaking to me.
My story behind this lesson goes like this. At the start of my penaltimant year of school I had alot going for me. I was an afc who used PUA techniques and didnt know it. As you can probably guess I was very confused when things started going wrong and happy but still confused when things were going amazing. It started with one girlfriend. Then another who (i met through a cold approach) I was pulling left and right. Then I started to get one-its. I eventually lost the girls. I lost alot of my new superficial 'popularity' and I started to lose all respect I had for myself. I spent hours in my room staring at walls and totaly alone. I had only one person to talk to and it was my sister and shes in a different country. Things were pretty grim, im not talking suicidal but pretty depressing. Noone wants to be around depressed people and things just kept spiraling for a good 4 months. One day somthing that had been clouding my mind the 4 months, somthing I couldnt put my finger on suddenly became clear. I saw what that this was getting me no where. I decided to take action and learn and force myself out of this hole I dug. I taught myself to learn. I taught myself to ignore stupid advice and stop judging things without hearing them out. As soon as i opened my mind to look for these inspirational things I couldnt stop seeing them, or hearing them or whatever. It was very powerful.

The lesson here, is that once you hit bottom realise that there is no such thing as a bad emotion. Each emotion is there to tell you somthing. Whats bad for most people is the way you interprate it. From then on I realised that its all about reframing. Look at things from a different angle. Think hard. What is this emotion telling me. Depression, its time to learn somthing you have been getting very wrong. Etc. Again TD's quote comes right into it here.

I thought I had it after that. I thought I was totaly at peace with myself. But things kept happening and Each new thing life changing experience kept opening my mind to more self-comfort and peace. Once your at peace with yourself like this you becoming super confident and you just stop caring about tivial things. I learnt not to care about stupid things like popularity, what people thought of me, wheather women liked me or what I looked like. It was me. And if you didnt like me. You can fuck off, cus your wasting my time.

The next thing I noticed from this, was the people who are also 'enlightened' like I am. I could tell who was fake and who was real with themselves. I met a now good friend of mine. A musician intrested in the expantion of the mind through drugs. Someone who looked at musicians such as Jim Morrison to learn from. This is no typical stonner. Ill tell you why in a sec.

We started hanging out more. I started to learn alot of things. The first psycadelic trip I had with him ended with a very spiritually connecting convorsation.

(just a side note if you ever think that somthing is 'Cheesy' notice that your only saying that cus you think that other people will judge you for learning from it. I believe 'cheesy' things teach you so much and is only labled like that by people who are too scared to admit to their mistakes and lack the self strength to empower themselves.)

We had a convorsation about what we didnt like about each other. My suggestion is you must do this. Dont judge each other, dont take it personally. Remember a trait of an Alpha male is to take critisism and act on it. I really suggest you have this convorsation with a close friend or family member. You will not believe the new and amazing things you learn about yourself. You see things that you didnt notice pissed people off before. Its a very powerful self help exercise. And ontop of that you are closer friends with that person than ever. After all if you think about it, a true friend is someone who isnt scared to hurt you to help you. Lying to someone doesnt help them, they still are tools. Telling someone the truth like that helps them learn to change. Do it.

You might be thinking now how does this relate to pick-up? I tell you now. Girls can see this in you. Just the way you are, the tone you speak in. The way you handle life. Its very attractive thing to have, to be at peace with yourself. They will know and they will want it. And if they already have it then she will definately want to hang out with someone who is at the same level as them. Learn to know yourself. And you will be more attractive.

Alot of these things can be seen in the way Hypnotica and Stevie P teach. Things like walking around with a dildo stuck to your head to learn not to give a fuck. How much can u truely know about yourself untill you know and able to control how you act when you are truely embarassed. Being comfortable with yourself is truely hard to do, but totally possible.

Here is a slightly strange lesson that before you read I want you to look past the childish and slightly homo theme of this lesson. STOP being a tool and learn to look beneith what is being said for the true lesson.

Nudity. I know now and understand nudists. Nudists must be very happy people and very at peace with themselves. It all started with 3 random friends at school. Ofter we would get drunk and walk around naked and streak etc. Soon we would become renoun for it. People would think were some sort of gay freaks. It started becoming a regular thing. Then it stoped happening at partys and started when we were just hanging around at each others house. Complete nudity. I have so much fun, and im not scared to say it. Its hard to articulate it here so ill copy somthing for you guys.

Some of you may know of Faccebook a myspace like program. There is application on it called 'Honesty box' where people can send u messages without me knowing who it came from.

I got a message one day "You get naked way to much" from a girl (it tells which gender).

Here is my reply:
You immature fucktards can go ahead and flame me. I really dont give a fuck what you think, before you post it though, think. Think. Your guna try and judge me, but what are other people guna think of you for judging me. If you werent ignore that.

The lesson behind this is that once you walk around with your dick out and people can see if you big or small (alot of big guys are still ashamed of it) it stops controlling you. Thoughts like 'am i too small' etc vanish. And yes I am pretty small. I dont care. Im free of that constraint. How many of you can say somthing like that on a forum like this with their identity in their picture. Im no longer anonymous.

Take that into the field with you. Realise that the women dont control you. You control them. Learn that you baldness doesnt control you. You control it. Learn not to let things hold you down. Anything in life.

Its pretty awsome trait to have. Ive been naked around people who think im a total freak. But i can see it in their eyes. They are jealous cus they can see the fun and self-confidence i have. And they want that.

If you have any life lessons or anything like this please share them. I heard a quote. "A fool learns doesnt learn from his mistakes, a smart man learns from his mistakes, and a genius learns from others mistakes."

Ok this has been a pretty long post. But I have many more to put out there. But I really need to go get ready. Guess what? Im going sarging. Im taking action. Are you?

Dont be afraid of anything till you have experienced it. You will notice that alot of the things your fearful of are completely unessary. Dont be stupid and let yourself get hit by a train. But if you dont live your life on the edge, you are mundane. And you are not living. Your just existing.

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Ratio theroy...

Chikito, ti amo. Well said in every part of the post. A very good rant and says everything that should be focused on. It doesn't really tell us how to focus our inner game, but it does show us what we should be like. Inner game is a gift that you make for yourself. Enjoy your time out. Sarge one for me (I am at the office and unable to do so myself...)

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Just got back. Pretty bad night, got one #close ah well.

I think what im trying to say is; Inner game isnt all about seducing women. Its about being comfortable with yourself. As a side effect from that you are then better at game, and a stronger seducer. This post was to pass some lessons i learnt on. Hopefully me throwing this out there will help inspire people to return the favour. And let us all get stronger.

Cheers apollo for the reply.

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Ratio theroy...

great post, chikito. it really seems great to have your attitude, and i really envy you for that(maybe envy isnt the right word,but i think you know what i mean).
its sooooo many people who are acting like they dont care what people think about them,but i dont think its many percent of them who really have that attitude.
i have a long way to go to get my inner game together,but that is one goal im gonna achieve no matter what it takes. and its really inspiring to read posts like yours, so thanks alot chikito keep em comming!!

just want to add maybe the biggest change ive done so far. im now thinking its just a matter of time before i become like you guys, and im on the right way, improving much faster than i ever did before. to think about that always lifts my spirit when im down, and im much less depressed now than before.

Yeh I agree with the other guys, great post. There are a lot of reasons that can lead to the errosion of peoples inner game. Sometimes its insecurity, sometimes uncertainty. For someone to come out on top after a lot of hassles and show their inner game is inspiring.

Never let life get you down, nothing can make you feel less about yourself.

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What a title!

Thanks for the story Chikito. It's a very inspiring story.

Enjoyed the story, thanks. BTW, that girl on your right looks like Raven Riley...do you know who she is?

New to pua but old in the game. Old dogs can learn new tricks, or better yet new knowledge. Your inner game approach is right on the money, we all have to enjoy ourself before we can others

Stoli.. u watch too much porn haha

Skotch

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