Hey guys. I was thinking about Inner Game for awhile and decided to write this. Sorry if I am repeating someone who posted here - I don't really have the time to read all posts. This is a conclusion that I came to recently.
I thought about all the guys who have really tight game. Isn't it interesting how they can be using many different techniques or no techniques at all and still be amazing with women.
I'm sure that most of you have heard that "The map is not the territory". And also you know that everyone has his own perception of reality which is really different than the perceptions of others.
So... if you look at those guys you will actually find that they all have really strong sense of reality. Okay... nothing new here.
But I was actually wondering what makes their own reality so strong? And I need your opinion on this and will be glad if you add something else to the list.
1. Beliefs. They all have some really strong beliefs about certain things (this is a <a href="">PUA Forum</a> so let's use an example with women). Let's say that they believe that all women are horny and want sex all the time.
2. Being unaffected by external realities. They are not willing to change their beliefs. If a woman tells them that they are not true or acts as if they are not true they think she's weird.
3. Feeling free to express their own reality (I think in NLP it will be called "Setting Frames"). They are willing to interpret everything and even try to prove to others that they are right. If a woman makes a comment they can easily interpret it as being sexual or something else that corresponds to their belief.
I think this is the foundation and it supports all their other traits and characteristics which create their own unique personality.
Hope to get constructive feedback and thanks in advance