Acceptance.

At some point of my development as a PUA, I looked at myself and asked the question:"why do I want to have a lot of women"

My answer was this: Because I want to fuck as many women as I can.
Q: And why do I want to fuck as many women as I can?
A: Because it feels good.
Q: What does feel good? Sex, or maybe other people seeing you with a lot of women?
A: Both.
Ahaa..

Why do I care, what other people think of me?

"I am trying to win acceptance from other people."

I was insecure of myself, and I thought if I could learn to meet women, I would get accepted.

That was my unconcious belief offcourse. I wasnt aware that I had it.

I want to ask you the same question. Is the reason why you want to date and fuck a lot of women because you actually want to, or is it because you crave the need for acceptance deep down in yourself?

Be honest with yourself.

My real success came, when I got rid of that belief. I said shit. I live my life for me. I am the ruller of my own life. I am also completely responsible for my life. I dont think what others think. I could care less.

Suddenly, after just changing this one belief, my success took a completely different step.
I started getting responses from women that I am a lot more attractive. They were asking me if I changed something on me.

I did. My belief.

I can see a lot of videos even from master PUA`s, that still have that belief. They are still insecure deep down. And they feed themselves with acceptance from women.

Find a way to deal with this. Fuck women because you like them, not because you want to brag your friends that you sthupped that hoe. Not because you want to have reputation as a "playa". Be a gentelman.

Like a woman for who she is. Not for her ass. Not for her tits. Not cus she can suck good. Like her as a person. But be a man. Not a wussy.

When you start to like a woman for who she is as a person, you than start to have standards. And you IMMEDIATELY become more attractive.

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Partly both. Partly because I want to be with someone and partly so people can shut the fuck up about me being single or not getting laid....

This is a very good point, I think most people, including myself, partly got into the game in order to win acceptance from others by being viewed as a player. This is obviously an external locus and should be taken care of. It would be great if more people with experience on this could expand on it.