Pickup is like sales, there are a lot of different ways to be successful, Everyone is different and there are different ways of selling different types of people, if you’re going to sell a rich person you have to sell them more on the service and be more matter of fact with out lying, which is the oppossitte of selling a poor person, with a poor person you sell them on the price and that they’re getting a sweeeet deal, you use a lot more enthusiasism and can be a lot more pushy. But don’t be pushy with that rich person. You have to let them make the decision on there own, you can hint towards it and ask for their business, but you can not “make” them do it like you could with a lower middle class or poorer person. This really applies to pick up because, if you’re going to pick up a super hott club girl who is bitchy because she gets hit on all the time by losers. You can’t just go up to her and be nice to her and just have a good conversation at first because she won‘t even give you the time of day! You first have to approach her at an angle or over the shoulder, use false time contraints and neg! You can and should Neg a lot, or you can even open up with negs, you can’t just start having a good, fun, playful conversation with her like you could with a cute girl sitting at a coffee shop. I havn’t approached in the field much which is going to change this summer, but I’ve found that the more you neg, or teasingly make fun of a superhott babe the more she likes you. This is exactly what happened with my superhott ex girlfriend Nicole. I told her I thought she was shy so she would dissprove me, she gave me a massage, I told her it was horrible, and she made top ramen for me and some friends later that night, I told her it sucked. All of it was either said teasingly, or as if I didn’t care what she thought. I made it seem like I didn’t say any of it to get a reaction out of her or get attention from her. I just didn’t care, and it was attractive to her.

This not only applies to sales, or to just pickup, it applies to life. Because you can classify people in your everday life into different categories and learn to deal with them and manage them accordingly. This is why I’m happy with my life and rarely dislike anyone. I try to learn who people are why they do what they do, even if people do stupid stuff they usually have a legit reason for doing it, whether it’s something that happened in their childhood or past experiences that makes them think that’s okay, gives them trust issues, or even gives them a problem with issues of authority. There is always a reason for everything and when you can figure them out, you will like people a lot more, and inadvertently be more comfortable with them, and vise versa. They will naturally and instinctively become more comfortable with you. It’s win-win.

-Beowulf551

was this a rant or was there a point?

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

It's a Self Realization, take it for what you want

How about we simply say that this community, like life is simply an experience, a growth and an understanding of ourselves as a person.

The moment you engrain the mentality that you have to sell yourself, the more you will validate yourself, like a puppy looking cute for an owner to take home. Which means you will become attention seeking and lose focus of the entire process.

the more you try to define something, the easier it is to confuse and lose the original experience.

I understand you mentioned you have little in field experience, this is why i say what i do, so you dont lose yourself in the process. You want to contribute to the community, i commend that and dont be discouraged to continue. The more you grow as a confident person, with little expectations on outcomes the better the experiences.

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."