Man I use to feel like I was ontop of the world I guess it's true pride goes before a fall and what's worst is I don't know what to do should I be arrogant and cocky or should I be humble and thankful. My dad told me to show love and stop thinking your so badass. I took his advice and started showing more love which I found out to be quite hard but when I did people treated me so nice like if they just found one of the best people on the planet. I'm not a complete good looking guy and the truth is I just wanna get laid and meet new people especially girls and have fun. Any advice?

Be what you want to be.

Here is a word of advice "mind like water" in reference to Bruce Lee the martial artist he said that you should be like water whichever situation your put in you acting accorddingly.

if you feel being nice in a certain situation is good then do it , if you feel being a jerk in a particular situation then do it. There is no black and white in life, you just feel in the situation the act accordingly.

Remember I took this from TD from RSD. your best self is the self which is not boosted up by egotestical elements. such as I look like this or have this car and own this house. remove these things from your life and if your still feeling happy thats your true inner confidence speaking, humans are born to be confident they just tend to get egotestical about their resources.

Hope this helps,
AVK

Man that is shit. I've been there many, many times.

You think you are gaming the group, being cocky and funny and all the shit, and suddenly someone gathers courage to tell you that you are being a dick and that you are going too far. For me it's so difficult that change of state that I don't know what to say and freeze.

the only way out, practice. Be aware of the words of you mouth before they come out. soon they'll be the right ones without thinking about it.

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