Hey guys ,
A new testament have come upon me , I was hanging out with a good friend of mine who has been seeing a supermodel the past three months ,another good friend of mine has been seeing another girl for the past year. A revelation came upon me as I have mingled in their lifes and seen the way it changed.

Having a girlfriend will not enlighten your life.

You think that having someone next to you the whole time is good ? you think that having to think twice before thinking of what to do is good ? you think that being emotionally attached to another human being is good?



I have seen guys who are not being able to concentrate in their lifes /careers/ jobs . because they had a fight with their GFs or because they are emotionally unstable with their women. You think thats a good situaiton to be in? If your women has had a bad day she will output it on you, if she had a terrible argument with her parents /friends she will take that negativity and express on you. Why do you want to end up having negativity in your life? Yes life is sweet and soar but it all depends on your needs and wants at this period of time.







think again.

As a single man I can enjoy the life I have , going out when I want to , doing the things that I want to , nobody telling me what to do or dont , meeting different women and different people , having a realm of endless possibilites with different women.


Yes there are advantages on the otherside , hell I could say that you dont want to end up being single all your life , but this comes in a time where your focus to get a LTR or a girlfriend is more open and more flexible in your life , not when your having too much time having fun.

Please note, if a girl comes along and you feel she fits the nest. give her the oppurtunity to express herself in that way give her the chance to endulge her nesting / feminine essence. But she must really work hard to put herself in that position.


So guys as a word of advice . THINK AGAIN

all those guys you have seen are OBVIOUSLY not alpha, alpha males dont give a fuck, because if they are getting hassled from their girl, they dump the old and get some new.

It all depends on the person, if you are Alpha, you wont have any problems, if your Beta... well you know what will happen at one point or another.

First of all this is in the wrong section. It has nothing to do with confidence building.
Second of all, those guys you are talking seem more like AFCs. Sometimes AFC also end up dating great women. However, to let them ruin their lives like that makes them chumps and not a confident male. Of course, there will be ups and downs and it should mostly be ups otherwise they shouldn't be with their women in the first place.

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