Affirmations for gaming and accepting beautiful women

I'm kinda into affirmations. I feel it's a great way for me to define the vision of who i want myself to be, which makes it easier to self-assess my (inter)actions and move towards that life and lifestyle that i wish to have.

I have made alot of strides in terms of achieving this vision but have come up to a familiar sticking point and need to find a way of defining what it is i'm working toward.

I have stopped gaming fatties and started only gaming beautiful women. but the entire time now my mind is racing. I don't know what to say, and if the interaction continues i put way too much pressure on myself.

Don't worry, my game doesn't go to crap, i'm locked in, teasing, kino'ing and escalation, even # closing and having good convos on the phone. but that's where it stops.

I know this isn't the view of who i want to become so was hoping I could enlist the help of people who have worked through this issue. Is it possible you could define, in a series of statements beginning with "I am a man who", that describe the feeling and difference between a guy who is freaked out around hotties and a man who is accepts beautiful women in his life as a reality and never get flustered.

i'm a man who don't give a shit about screwing up with hot woman because i know there are hell lots of other opportunity out there"

Anything with the word "DONT" will not work. They have to be said in the positive. For example, you can't say "I dont give a fuck what people think of me" because your brain will pick up "I give a fuck what people think of me." Instead say, "People love and respect me" or something similar to that. -cshadyp