Depending on your self-image (how you feel on the inside when you speak, how you look, your value, etc.) your job is to make it into something that makes you as happy as possible. Once you are secure in yourself, you won't have to worry about anything ever again, concerning social situations, that is.

A good self-image is the most important factor in your success with women. The reason is because if you value yourself highly, people will assume that you are a person who is worth getting to know. If you have a good self-image, there is no pretending. There is less effort exuded on your part, and you come off as more attractive. Once you are happy with yourself, you can focus on making others feel happy being around you.

So....

The way to break away from your persona is to do things that your old self-image wouldn't like. Your old self is comfortable with its old habits and routines, so you have to gradually introduce it to a NEW and BETTER self-image. Of course, your old self-image will feel discomfort.

Old Self-Image:What are you doing to me? No, that's not me. It's just not me.

DON'T LISTEN TO IT!

Do EVERYTHING it doesn't want you to do. Eventually, it will get the message, and say, "It's okay. I can do this!" And you will gain more confidence. Don't stop until you fully become that new self-image. The guy who talks to women naturally bc it's no big deal, the guy who isn't afraid of singing Britney Spears songs loudly while walking down a busy street bc he doesn't give a fuck what people think, the guy who makes his own rules and always makes the best out of situations...That authentic, confident individual with a strong personality you've always wanted to be, but your ego wouldn't allow it. It's time to make it HAPPEN! Give your old self-image a large kick in the butt, get out there and meet some women! -cshadyp