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PostPosted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:27 pm 
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This is it, i can get girls no problem on the night and they think im hot but ,and its a big but, i can never get them to become my girlfriend.

Now im not sure if i actuallywant one but my ability not to get gfs is denting my inner game.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 5:29 pm 
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please read the section descriptions before posting. This is unrelated to Relationships and will be moved.

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actually it is related.. his self esteem and inner game is becoming lower because he cannot make these chicks his girlfriends !


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 3:21 am 
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Actually, there is a section for inner game. The relationships section is about "maintaining happy and healthy relationships"...not figuring out how to escalate your day twos.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 3:41 am 
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This is it, i can get girls no problem on the night and they think im hot but ,and its a big but, i can never get them to become my girlfriend.

Now im not sure if i actuallywant one but my ability not to get gfs is denting my inner game.

Any advice??
Ya...you can't force someone to be your gf....its ultimately her choice & there's no way you can change or try to manipulate them.

Focus on yourself and understand WHY your doing the things you are before worrying about external stuff like that.


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 2:50 am 
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So you want a relationship? Cool, man.

Well I'd brush up on follow-ups first.

The guys who survive after doing this are usually the naturals because they are who they are... Not just saying a bunch of things.

I've written posts on inner game before because I'm good at it - but I think it was more focused on Approach Anxiety. It might help anyways.

But for now, you should just learn on being able to follow-up after sleeping with them. Work on becoming more natural - maybe just internalize the structure of your game rather than the actual material. The material itself has limited range because they need a certain kind of response - while the structure can be a little more flexible... Well, in my mind. But I think that structure and understanding why it works is better than just regurgitating lines and stories. Maybe you don't do this... Who knows.

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This is the other post I did, hope it helps.

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