I know this is like a from a 16 year old boy. But I am not I am 21 and have pretty good game.
But I do have this one problem that eats me up all the time.

I am almost 22 years and this have been driving me nuts almost whacked out paranoid depressed etc.... My family is sooooo dysfunctional it is impossible to bring a girl home.
I know I know move out, but cause of this tough economy it seems impossible to find a job. Not saying I am not looking cause believe me I am!!!!!!!!!!!
I can not say I am bad at meeting women, I could say I am pretty good at it. You see me at a bar or club and think this guy gets all the women.
But I DONT!!!! I get scared, where am going to take this girl? How can I build a relationship or a long term relationship. We can not go on a date every time we meet. Well if we are dating, but after that ?????
The girls I did have sex with, bar sluts, we did it in an ally or my car.
But that is not what I am trying to achieve.
I want to build a relationship but how when I do not have a place to take her too? Watch a movie together play games, invite friends over etc...

come on!!! no one can help me??

In case you never watched a sitcom growing up, it's ridiculously easy to re-frame a dysfunctional family as a hilarious family. Growing up, my parents ran a campground that was constantly occupied by weird burnt-out hippies with nowhere else to go--many of whom only bathed once a month! Do you think I let that stop me from bringing girls over? Of course not! In fact, they were dying to meet the people from the crazy-ass stories I had told them about my life.

Remember, what you feel, she feels. If you think your family is embarrassing and stupid, she will feel embarrassed and stupid. If you can find humor in their dysfunction, not only will she also find humor in it, but she will find you unequivocally more sexy for your outlook.

Of course, the long-term solution here is for you to accept your family as they are, love them, and start not giving a shit what the girl thinks about them Hope this helps.

Your boy,
870

I had this same problem.
I focused most of my life on building my career. So my lifestyle is SUPER UNATTRACTIVE. But I could afford to live on my own at 21 without a roommate in the L.A. suburbs, one of the most expensive places to live in the country.

There is a solution and it may have already been provided to you by nature. Just don't go back to your place. Go to her place. Women are more likely to move out of their parents house then men. I could cite this from my old sociology book but i think this link will do:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/magazine/6542007.stm

Typically women leave home earlier and in larger numbers to pursue sexual independence. This makes it easier for you.

Other solution is get a shitty job and find a roommate. Maybe you guys can PA together. Either way you will get more privacy and respect. Cause he will want the same.

I have a probelm similar to yours too man. Im 16, i dont know what to do with girls either, im just as scared of them as you are man. I have a bad family too and i can't bring girls over my house either etc. What im saying is that your not the only one with these kinds of probelms. My brother is 21 too and is still living with us (he's moving out soon). But anyway, do what everyone else says and find any job you can and take it, take what you can get.

Good Luck

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my family is dangerously violent. Well maybe dangerous is to harsh of a word but you can hear them fighting from across the street. And if I walk it, like I did with the last girl. Who is this dumb bitch you brought home.
I guess that is the only thing I can do look for a job. Which I am trust me. I am a promoter but it does not make enough money to be on my own, just to save a up a bit and buy nice things. I need a stable job
I am kinda embarrassed to say hey, i am still living at home and its very violent so you can not come over.
How or when to say it, you know. If I say it early she would think this guy is trying to get some right away.
If I can some how go to her place a couple of times and when she asks, I would tell her the honest truth.
Easier said than done