Alright so I have been semi dating a girl for about a week now but the only problem is she just broke up with her ex 3 weeks ago....she started telling me she wasint planning on geting in any thing because she wants to feel what its like the be single and its so soon after her and her bf broke up....then she tells me she likes me alot! and doesint know what she wants. I diding say much other then "I see well Im going to bed good night" Oh and to throw another monkey wrench in the situation she lives 3 hours away.

So here is my question....I know I cant be with her right now because I dont want to be the "rebound guy"....But I do really like her hence I dont want to date her for a month and then call it quits. How should I break it to her that I dont want any thing right now? and let her know that once she gets over her ex, and deals with her shit come talk to me?

Oh and she keeps sending me emails, and telling me she wants me to come see her this weekend ect ect ect....but then gets in these emotional rants.

Tell her that you don't wanna be the rebound guy, and tell her to think about what she wants and then call you.

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