Can she be "out of your league"?



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PostPosted: Thu May 03, 2007 8:46 am 
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Hi Guys,

Recently I've been meeting really good looking girls through friends and on the field - HB9+'s.

I would really like to get closer to them, but although I run game on them, I keep thinking at the back of my mind that these really good lookers are out of my league and that there's no way, no matter how charismatic I come across, that I'll end up with one of them. I am also weary of how others might view us as a "couple".

Any advice / opinions on this? Can a woman really be out of your league?

- Angelus


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PostPosted: Thu May 03, 2007 1:53 pm 
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"Out of your league" is just a mental block. And I wouldn't care how people would see you as a couple. I have friends that are currently dating girls that are disproportionally hot. And yes, they do receive so envy from other guys (hatters). But they also receive just a much respect too. But none of that matters. If you desire beautiful women, then you should go for it.
You sound like you have a pretty good grasp on the PUA game. But I think you need some more self confidence. I recommend reading "The Mack Within" by Tariq “King Flex” Nasheed. It’s not a PUA book, but it gives great info on Demonstrating Higher Value.


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Cheers guys, will work on it.


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PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 2:16 am 
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UFff thats quite of a question mate, in the moment u say she is out of ur league, u are lowering ur level from her league

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i would just like to make mention of what helps me out when i start to get this feeling.

-The only girls that are out of your league are the ones that you put out of your league


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Interesting question: Can she be out of your league? Well, I'll tell you what. If YOU think she's out of your league then you're right. If YOU think she's not, you're right again. Get it? As many guys have told you it is about how you think about it.
Stop setting boundaries to yourself and your life. Work your inner game. There are thousands of great books out
there (not necessarilly have to do with pick-up but confidence is something you need in your everyday life not just to DHV).
Work on that man. As Mystery says, every hot babe no matter how hot she is or how bitchy she may seem will eventually
spread her legs for someone. Why not that guy be you?
Think about it...


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Yes, she can be out of your league. Heres why.

For guys who lack the confidence, inner game, and appearance, she can definitely be out of your league. This can be fixed thought, you just need to do it. A friend of mine used be completely out of league for the girls I was gaming at the time. After alot of help from me and alot of soul searching and personal development he was nailing girls who wouldn't even give him 5 minutes to open before.

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your having afc moments man rofl. its a limiting belief in your mind like david d said. and your thinking of the worst scenarios while you run game which will indeed fuck you up. if you keep thinking that way i believe you will create a self-fufilling prophecy and end up proving ur self right. try not to think of the worst scenario and jsut run game, and be confident in what you do, you gotta feel it to believe it. and even if you end up not getting her. well like david d said yet again there are a million girls right behind her 10x better looking and what not. so just move on


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No such thing as 'out of your league'..

You're a man, they're a woman.. They all respond to the same approaches.

If she aint responding, go elsewhere and blame it on her.


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Everybody has been pretty on the dot with this one but I figured I'd give an answer anyway.


Just like pretty much everybody has said, shes only out of your league if you make her that way in your head. The moment you think that, you've already lost because you've devalued yourself in your own mind. As long as you bring the confidence and charm shes putty in your hands. All you have to do is DLV her and make her question if she is good enough for you. Switch up the thought process on her.

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Yes, she can be out of your league. Heres why.

For guys who lack the confidence, inner game, and appearance, she can definitely be out of your league. This can be fixed thought, you just need to do it. A friend of mine used be completely out of league for the girls I was gaming at the time. After alot of help from me and alot of soul searching and personal development he was nailing girls who wouldn't even give him 5 minutes to open before.
I agree completey. Reckon you could give us a few specifics anything you did to "fix" your friend?

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**SHES OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE!**

Think about it!

You have the power to seduce any Woman you want in the world! As long as u play the game right.

Her - Shes does not have the power to seduce any man only more than the usual!!

Wake up dude! LOL

Believe: SHE IS OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE! YOUR THE PRIZE!

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what kind of question is this? Out of your league? thats a self limiting belief!!!!
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Think about it!

You have the power to seduce any Woman you want in the world! As long as u play the game right.

Her - Shes does not have the power to seduce any man only more than the usual!!

Wake up dude! LOL
well not all women. There is just some women out there that will never like you for what ever reason.


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with this mentality you are limiting yourself to nothing more than a short conversation because you will, innevitably, think that trying to pursue it further would lead to rejection and then convince yourself that you are content with just opening an HB9+ instead of doing what you would normally do with an HB7 or HB8 because to you, subconsciously, they are "in the same league as you"


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