Hi.

Me and my ex started messaging each other again rafter about a two month freeze-out. I told her how I felt about her and how much I still love her. She messaged me back and told me how she could of been a better gf and that she still CARES for me. I am going to call her either way, but do you think she doesn't love me since she said she only cares after I said I love her?

She initiated the conversation. Would girls do this if they didn't love you and you were the one who broke up with them? The thing is my ex is kind of insecure and shy so I think she might of held back on the love part, I dunno. I know it would make me feel a lot better if she said she loves me too.

If you are a girl/woman reading this PLEASE reply, I value your opinion a lot about things like this.

I thjink this is posted in the wrong section.

I'm a guy. But hey, think about it.. if she's insecure, and you tell her about your feeelings... what can she do? It takes confidence to say "I don't like you", after a "I love you"-speech.

You sound insecure. You are attatched to the outcome, which means that everything you do is based on "I want her to love me". This will make you FAIL all shit-tests.

I advice you not to give a shit. She's an ex. EX! But, please, re-game her if you wish. Call her, ask her out, show her the new self of yours. Eventually you will find out if it did or did not work.

Let me say that again. Either you try, and win/fail, or you fail without trying or learning anything.

Lastly, it's hard to give you an analysis here, because we don't really have any material to work with.

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Okay, I'm a girl and this is my first post on this site, so bear with me.

My god, I'm in an ex situation right now and I'd die to have him tell me what you told her! Give her time to figure out how she feels about you. Yeah, you were pretty ballsy by telling her you loved her still, via text, but that's cool. She may have been a bit taken aback by it, but she obviously still cares for you if she told you.

On the [/i]other hand, that might have been a slight deterrence for her true feelings...she might just be saying that she cares for you, but isn't ready to try things again, or at all.

I'd say take things VERY slow and try to meet up with her for coffee or lunch sometime soon. Just get back to being friends before anything.

Take it very slowly and avoid any further confessions from your side until you're 100% that she's THE ONE.