Here I am before knowing about picking up women and so forth thinking that the best way to show a woman that your interested is by showing her respect and giving her gifts then marrying her and being in a life long relationship and blah blah blah. long story short i was a AFC who was cheated on when ever he got lucky and got someone.

And here I am now grinding and groping other women while their boyfriends are either sitting down somewhere or drinking at the bar. Flirting with women whos names i dont even know and having them flirt back to my surprise and now thinking what the hell is the point in monogamous relationships?

We all know its possible to pick up and f-close a chick whos taken so how the hell am i supposed to be comfortable in a relationship non the less marrage?

You don't want to meet a gf/wife in a bar or club. Your best bet to meet high quality women is through a friend or a co worker.

You're young, dont worry about it. Go out, have fun and meet as many gorgeous women as you can.

CK

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

Buddy, I hear ya. The same horrible thoughts have been in my mind as well.

I sat down with a girl and brought her into the world of pick up and got her opinion. She said "We're not books! We're not all the same!!"

Yes you are right, there are many fucked up chicks that...probably MOST. However: there are women out there that arent like that. Guess what, we dont see many of them at clubs though lol. Also...you dont see many at our age.

As we get older, women get more serious and *want*to settle down more than men. There still are some our age but....dont worry about it. Keep doing your thing.

Also: you sound like you are in this for the pussy. If so smack yourself a few times you deserve it.

I started in pick up to improve myself. My innergame needs the most work and its improving through pick up. If you keep working on and improving yourself (this is a life long process!) then everythign else will fall into place.

Purchase:
David Deangelo's - Deep inner game
Stephen Covey's 7 habits of highly effective people.

These are stark opposites. Covey is NOT a PUA...but this magical 1-2 punch helped me quite a lot!