Yea, maybe its just sunday, and lately sundays have been my down day, and maybe its just that daylight savings makes it dark way too early, but I've been feeling pretty blue and lonely lately. I've been trying to pump myself up and stay positive, but the fact is, I'm becoming more and more tense and frustrated. I mean, I just don't get what I do wrong sometimes.

Any suggestions? I mean, the fact is, I can continue to pump myself up and whatnot, but I feel like I won't be truly happy and content until I get in a good relationship, which is probably not a good attitude to feel. I've done a good job of building myself up, and my confidence and self esteem in general is a lot higher than it used to be. I used to need anyones approval, but lately, I feel like I really need some sexual approval.

Any good techniques to help fight this?

Before you start looking for extrinsic things to get you built up. Look for intrinsic motivators of yours. I think of it like a pyramid. If you build your bottom block off of what you love and your values then you have something to fall back on. If you do the opposite and build on something like sex or social approval then when that ally of build ups closes down you've got nothing underneath you and it sends you into a tail spin. Find something you love to do first.

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