I really do suggest you go sarging alone. Because I'm pretty new at this too, and I thought I couldn't possible enter a social place all alone. What I found out is that having friends with you isn't necessarily a good idea, especially if you haven't really developed your alpha-ness yet.

Whenever I go to parties with friends with the intent of sarging, it never happens. My friends have no idea how to approach, therfore either I have to alpha up and drag the group by myself, or dedicate my attention to strictly my group of friends. If you try to make a move, I feel like the friends I brought resent it, because I'm acting out of the ordinary. Friends just seem to be an obsticle when you are sarging.

So I made a 6 hour drive to San Francisco all BY MYSELF to catch A RAVE up there. Positive results. I made over 50 new friends, I met a couple of girls, and I even # closed. Because I didn't have company with me, I had to absorb the environment. In other words, it was either talk to everyone or talk to no one. It was a refreshing change. I had mad approach anxiety beforehand though. I felt like there's no way I can relate to people from a different city. But people are a lot friendlier than I thought. A club is a good setting to go sarging alone( at least for me) because the theme is dancing. If you're not so confident about your words( which I am sometimes) I can always be the seducer through dance.

The point is, try going out sarging by yourself, just for kicks and giggles. The best part about it is that none of your friends can witness you fuck it up. Because I did look stupid a couple of times up in San Francisco, but I was able to brush it off, knowing that everyone, including me, will forget after the event.

You are going to hell, yep that CEO chair is waiting.

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Try twelve days man. All though it has given me the chance to read The Art of Seduction and The Game. Again.

You know, this could be considered human contact.... Don't you have to eat or something? Go grocery shopping or go to a diner for god sakes man DO SOMETHING!:shock: Trust me, that cabin fever shit is real and it fvcks w/ your head. I have friends who'll get sick and they'll be out for like a week and no one'll call or anything and they'll come back to school and they'll be a lil squirrely. But seriously dude, hope you have better luck soon.

Nine

Maybe you should try examining what you did wrong and appologizing for it to your friends. This was a huge mistake on your part and it is greatly affecting you. You should never hook up with your buddy's ex, unless he has given you his blessing first.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Here is what you should do.

If you live near people, go to the book store, shopping mall, or random place and sarge. Just pick up girls and get thier numbers, it doesn't matter if you call them or not, just increase your social network. If there is something you do, ie a hobby, go connect with the same people who do your similar hobby.

The art of seduction is good. It has a lot of information on why things seem natural and a lot of history (ie cleopatra, marylnn monroe, Cassanova). I would suggest reading it. Also, try apoligizing to your friends, say you fucked up, because well, you did.

If all else fails, go onto match.com and meet someone.

I personally think its a basic staple if you truly want to learn seduction. It gives some real good historical examples but the break down of each story can get a little lengthy at times. But over all a great read.

Just go somewhere during the day and start short conversations with girls or even anyone. Learn to comment girls behaviour in a funny way, ask them for sth (but not "What time it is"). In most cases, if they will not be in a hurry, they respond positively. Then, you can say "Nice to meet you" and go away, or continue a conversation. This will bring you into very good mood and you will start building confidence.

Do not focus on outcome, start from sth simple.

Dude your a magic 8 ball with an extensive vocabulary. Give some real responses.

You have brought shame and dishoner to your buddy and now you are paying for it. Go figure.