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Well, I do go to the gym; I'm a scrawny 150-some pounds. Wasn't able to chin myself properly till about a year-and-a-half ago. Gave myself a bad lower back by hunching over too much in my twenties; I'm now correcting that via copious stretches. I wasn't even able to do a proper push-up till the last couple months, either. I should do more strength training, but it takes money to do a trainer, and I have other priorities.
Got my driver's license at thirty, started learning karate at the same time, and three to four thousand dojo hours later, I'm pretty good, though learning to move my hips was the hardest.
Getting a job, a real job, the first one since college, was a big morale booster, this year. I fought for my job, even though I lost it, and have been filling out forms; was working on three today, for Lowe's, and willi again tomorrow.
When my job was doing well, this summer, I made a real push on video editing, a namely focusing on learning it, while saving for a car, but then my post, which I did well at, and derived some value, ended, and got moved to other places in the store, where I quickly flamed out.
As for video editing, I was focused on using my resources at this local college, but the guy running it thought me too scary, and security kicked out of the campus. Imay be back in January, but that was a setback.
Women. As I've said before, I've had some disasters sarging, but I still read up on it, and think of it, often. I've decided not to focus on it, now, because I've found it too stressful, and kept think what a loser I am in my general life, and that is why I'm now focused on a job, and a trade, as in video editing. Hopefully, in a few months, or so, I will feel like sarging, again with a jo, and a regime in place to learn video editing. Should have done this earlier in my life, to learn something useful to making money, but oh, well.
There's my plan, and I'm working it. Like you, I tried first by getting good with women, get confidence there, but I got campus security called on me for sarging a girl, as in touching her hair (mistake), and later, she saw me on a bus, and called the cops, a couple weeks, later.
For me, I'm not sure now's the right time to get started on building confidence with girls.
Odesk/Elance/Upwork/guru.com are only 4 of many freelancing websites that I regular use myself. It's swarming full of people looking for video editors. You can get a friend to leave some Bogus reviews and You can then google "how to stand out on outsourcing websites?" and then you will be ahead of the curve. You see? Think outside out of the box. The money is out There to be taken.
It's all about the hustle. Same with picking up chicks, you get the fundamentals and think outside of the box and reel the results. Same with gym, there are smarter ways to workout than the average clueless chode picking up any old weight.
Use your head, you obviously haven't googled hard enough. You need to dig into Google and be PRO-ACTIVE at this thing. Recently, I found a product that's selling pretty good around Xmas one bay for pretty cheap. I made a quick website using "SELLO" and created a product page. I then used Facebook ads to send people to my page and make money. You know how I found this out? I learned and have been PRO-ACTIVE at this goal for the past 3/4 years
All of your post is just full on bull shit excuses.
Welcome to the real world. Life is a hustle, the people that hustle are going to get the rewards. Or you can look for jobs that you don't want to do, like work in a DIY store.
I hope Your next post isn't just more excuses. Then I will have to caps lock on your ass and you don't want that. Trust me.
You're supposed to be men. Enough of the this defeatist bull shit