Hello all

I have a question out there thats been getting me off for a while

The other day i was curious going online and searched up AFC (Average Frustrated Chump)

I found this on one website

A BAFC (Below Average Frustrated Chump)

Thinks he might have a problem...but doesn't know what the problem is.
Bases his perception of romantic love on what he sees in movies.
He believes in "fate" and thinks the advice "being yourself" is gold...he thinks someday he'll magically meet his dream HB and they'll live happily ever after.
Dresses GQ but talks to dudes all day.
Realizes players exist, but thinks the lifestyle is evil or to be scorned.
Believes that Playboy's "playmates" are not really like other women, because when unfolding the centerfold he blurts internally, "Oh Anna-Marie, you are so beautiful you just can't be one of them. I love you so much I should bless you footsteps wherever you go! Muah!".
When his AFC friends just say "hi" to chicks, he thinks they are players.
Has never heard the term "alpha male".

An AFC (Average Frustrated Chump)...

Knows he has a problem attracting chicks...thinks he'll eventually solve it by doing the same things over-and-over...or that one day Oprah will give him that one piece of advice that will make the difference.
Knows players exist, secretly wishes to be one, doesn't know how.
Has heard the phrase "Let's Just Be Friends" from just about every chick he's taken out on a date.
Depends on luck for all his success.
Has that "one girl" he's trying to figure out how to get.
May have found mASF but still can't admit to himself he's an AFC...or miraculously realizes how great a PUA he is already is going to become as when he can finally PU that one special girl after reading stuff in ASF for 30 seconds. All he has to do is just post one request for advice on the forum and start it with "This isn't one-itis, but there's this one girl who..."

Ok so i'm going to be REAL honest

I kind of have SOME qualities of BAFC (But not any much of AFC) like i sort of believe in fate, but also i believe in making it a reality, meaning im not waiting for something
And SOMETIMES yes these romantic movies can get to me
That being said i DON'T have trouble attracting women

The one that bothered me the most is the 'He think being yourself phrase is gold' and that kinda got me off because yes i am a strong believer of 'being myself'

That being said i AM attracting to women, and isnt that pretty much the point or key?
Im just basically curious
If being yourself is bad, what are you suppose to be?

And if you attract alot of women being yourself (I feel most confident when being myself, that being said i have alot of experience) is that a bad thing?

Also if women get you frustrated sometimes, does that mean your an AFC?

No. Not at all. "The "Being yourself" line is more alluding to when "yourself" is a supplicant who doesn't have the balls to approach and who would do anything for a girl and listen to her tell him about her problems and go shopping with her and all of that, and then one day "make a move" and startle the girl because he was AFCing the whole time and it didn't even occur to her that he had a dick based on his previous actions.

When a guy is pleased with the results in this area of his life, he wouldn't care if you called him an AFC all day long. He would know in his heart that he is content.

Thanks man I really appreciate your advice because yes I admit I fail with some girls with being myself, but also isn't that part of the game as well?
As long as I learn
Thank you :]

I agree 100%. "Failure" aka learning is the road to lasting success.

Yes you should "be yourself" but not if it means acting like an AFC. Guys get used to acting a certain way (for example AFCish) all their life and think they're "being themselves." But the truth is that being yourself can take many forms. An AFC can become a PUA master and still be himself, just a stronger version of himself. In fact if he agrees with and is comfortable with this new way of being I would say he is being MORE himself because he is expressing a side of himself that was always there but was being suppressed by fear and lack of knowledge.

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Agree with this totally, though I'd phrase it differently.

When you supplicate to a women, you aren't being yourself. PUA lets you discover the man you truly are.

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