Gents,

I did really well with a chick on POF the past few days. I made her laugh and then passed her shit test with flying colours. But after asking her to meet and finding out she was way on the other end of town, I felt inadequate because I don't have a car. She even asked if I drive despite my profile stating that I don't have a car! I felt down about it and told her that because she lives so far away, we should forget it. Now she blocked me because I rejected myself first.

How can a guy in a situation like mine avoid rejecting himself?
-Poor
-No car
-Little furniture
-Haven't found a job in the field I just studied for
-Even when I find a job in this new field my salary is going to suck initially
-May have to move because my rent is so expensive
-Inconsistent self-discipline

I'd like to fix all these things before I go out and meet women. But not having much of a social life and not feeling comfortable interacting with women are two things holding me back just as much as anything else.

I know i will get a lot of shit for saying this but when i was like 18 i was in a very similar situation as yours, I was and still am extremely addicted to pussy, By me knowing that I made it my number one priority in life to make as much money as possible on a daily basis, That way if a HB wanted to meet me at 12am or something and i didn't have a car i would have made enough money that day that taking a taxi 50 miles away would not even faze me, Also I didn't like taking chicks back to my place so i would always rent a hotel.

Some would say you don't need money to game because then she will only use you for money. I say don't make money for them, make it for yourself so this shit wont happened next time a chick on POF wants to fuck