The past two women I've attracted have been emotionally unstable and have had problems with their father. I have also noticed that I give too much attention and often come on too strong shortly after initial contact begins. I think it has to do with the way my father treats my mother if that's any kind of excuse/explanation and I want that to change ASAP.

I have never been called needy, but feel as though that may be the case and may be coming on too much of a nice guy.

How can I kill this inner complex and develop stronger feelings on independence and drop the "need" to have women vs. loving the chase or whatever other mindset is needed.

Any help will be appreciated.

Thx

Hook up with some chicks just so that you know you can, then neediness goes away. I know, it's a paradox.

That could work. Seems simple enough. I thought this was more psychological and would suggest a different route though. Have to get back in the game now. Woo woo