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| JacobPrince | PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2014 8:46 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Sep 29, 2014 8:39 pm Posts: 3 | | Hey guys, Jacob Prince here!
Not getting any results? Maybe your going through a dry spell? Maybe your having the worst night in your life? But either way your getting tons of rejections…. How to prevent being bitter towards women and flip your night around.
No matter how good you get in game, your always going to have inner game issues, some of which are helpful and can drive you to get amazing results. But most of the time they are just going to fuck you up.
Now I have met some of the best seducers in the world and even they have phases where they may not get any results for a period of time. Even they have off nights… Even they, when they first started in game sucked and got minimal results for a long time.
But it’s very easy to over think things in the moment and start to judge yourself as a person based on your recent results.
The truth is, this problem happens to literally everyone. This can lead many guys into a downward spiral of bitterness. This is how a lot of misogynists are born.
Next time your out and things aren't going to well for you, make sure you remember these 3 things to prevent you from becoming bitter:
1: You can ALWAYS pull from your worst nights out. Every time you go out, there will always be a cute girl out there who will love you. Its just a case approaching until you find her and believing your going to get laid.
2: Realise that game progression comes in waves, so your going to have some massive highs and lows. Usually if your going through a low point then you are about to go into a high point.
3. You are responsible for your own emotional state. When interacting with other human beings, you can control the feedback you are receiving.
Maybe a girl try's to kiss you? and you are pumped with good emotions – the reason why your filled with positive emotions is because that’s the way you choose to interpret the situation.
So therefore every rejection you get, you have a choice to interpret it as a positive or negative. For example, next time a girl tells you to “fuck off” you can reframe it in your head as “oh she must have thought it was to good to be true” or that you just took the rejection like a pro would.
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