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PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2014 1:51 pm 
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Or just me being introvert?

I dunno, but for years:

-I always like doing things alone,
-I don't like people / hanging out with new people, except women that I like.
-It's fine for me if they're the one who wants to hangout with me, but me doing the initiative nah. Most of the time this happens.
-I hate society.
-I think too much and too deep.
-I only like hanging out with my closes friends who also view things like how I see it.
-Most of the time I prefer being alone, or go out with my most loyal wingmen.
-I feel like view things differently from the majority. The meaning of an inner meaning, something like that.
-There's something inside me that I can't explain, It keeps clouding my brain. I feel like I'm seeing people as robots, not all but the majority. The reason I'm hating them. They keep doing things other people would want them, not because it's their choice.
-I feel like I don't give a fck, I see an accident, I just pass by it while others are looking shocked and fearful. I enjoy seeing deaths or brutalities on tv when others can't stand it.
-I forgot to add, I feel like I always want to punch random people's faces, but not all the time. I also ask a stranger before to fight me even without reason, he declined.



Dafuq? Help!


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2014 3:14 pm 
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A lot of what you're describing is just introversion, WHICH IS FINE.

In the context of pickup, a lot of guys believe that introversion is something that needs to be fixed. They believe you need to be extroverted in order to be a good PUA.

That's utter bullshit.

You can actually use introversion to your advantage and be a BETTER seducer than most extroverts. That's why I developed the Seductive Introvert program.

However, some of the things you said isn't about introversion, but rather poor inner game.
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-I don't like people / hanging out with new people, except women that I like.
Having a preference for hanging out with just people that you like is introversion and it's fine.
Hating people in general, however, is poor inner game. It reflects a bitter mentality that actually should be fixed.
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-I hate society.
This is also LIKELY a sign of poor inner game. More specifically, a failure to have a mindset of adaptability, but this is not always the case.
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-I only like hanging out with my closes friends who also view things like how I see it.
That lack of open-mindedness and tolerance will hinder your growth in EVERYTHING.
A true introvert is a great listener and a great learner, so this closed-minded characteristic is actually preventing you from realizing all of the natural advantages you get from being an introvert.
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-There's something inside me that I can't explain, It keeps clouding my brain. I feel like I'm seeing people as robots, not all but the majority. The reason I'm hating them. They keep doing things other people would want them, not because it's their choice.
This one is half and half. What you should be wary of is your lack of compassion. You need to practice having a more sympathetic/empathetic outlook that takes into account more factors that are in your mental blind spot - such as the fact that everyone has different dispositions and they're all just trying their best with what they know. Not everyone was blessed to have the same forms of preparation you've had in life.
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I enjoy seeing deaths or brutalities on tv when others can't stand it.
Again, you've lacked practice in empathy, so you should focus on developing that. Not only is this an inner game issue, but it's also outer game because empathy is heavily used for many attraction techniques.
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-I forgot to add, I feel like I always want to punch random people's faces, but not all the time. I also ask a stranger before to fight me even without reason, he declined.
This has nothing to do with introversion. It's a result of a combination of your bitterness from the fact that introversion is treated like a problem in society rather than embraced, your lack of adaptability, your lack of empathy, your fundamentally unjustifiable bitterness toward those who are think differently from you, and your deep intrinsic desire to change the world despite the fact that you cannot change it in the way that you want to. And most likely an assload of other factors such as a general discontent from feeling powerless in terms of asserting your identity as a man in a world where old-school definitions of masculinity are obsolete.

The solution lies in A LOT of inner game shit.

By the way, the first month of training in my Seductive Introvert program is inner game-intensive. You'll benefit from it a lot.

You should keep in mind, though, that the naturally introverted characteristics you have cannot be changed and, again, THAT'S JUST FINE:
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-I always like doing things alone,
-I don't like ...hanging out with new people, except women that I like.
-It's fine for me if they're the one who wants to hangout with me, but me doing the initiative nah. Most of the time this happens.
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-I think too much and too deep.
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-Most of the time I prefer being alone, or go out with my most loyal wingmen.
-I feel like view things differently from the majority. The meaning of an inner meaning, something like that. :)
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PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2014 3:22 pm 
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Ahhh the 'Lone Wolf'. You see yourself as aloof and emotionally unwilling to directly interact with other people.

Many women find these traits attractive. A stereotypical lone wolf will be dark, mysterious. Often taciturn. You have distinguished yourself through this reserved nature.

I really don't think that being a loner is a bad thing. Sometimes people can be really annoying and cause to many issues in your life that it's better to avoid.

That being said, a girl still wants a guy who socializes and knows how to have fun. She also wants her man to have friends.

Here's the thing, I'm a social guy, but I also have a HUGE percent of me that needs my space and independence, but does that make me a loser, HELL NO!!!

It just means I am willing to step out of my comfort zone to get what I want out of life.

So must you!

You must find a balance.

Have the balls to step outside of that tight knit circle of like minded friends.

Keep the dark, mysterious, aloofness that is attractive to women who want to try and 'help' change you because they think you're just shy. Or those who have watched too many films and thinks loners are mysterious/cool (have you seen the lines for twilight movies?). But be willing to approach, and be approachable.

Get what I'm sayin Bro?

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