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PostPosted: Fri Jul 18, 2014 6:05 am 
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Hey guys, so this something that has really been concerning me a lot. Having already read up on a lot of sources pertaining to picking up women from different PUAs and dating coaches and what have you, it been my knowledge that a large majority or about 80% of the girls that you ask out are going to say no to you due to have their own various specific reasons. They say that the four general reasons as to why your success rate can't be higher are:

1. 20% have boyfriends (if online probably 10 have boyfriends and the other 10 are getting 100 messages a day)
2. 20% Aren't in a MENTAL place where they will allow themselves to be picked up
3. 20% aren't attracted to you for reasons outside of your control
4. 20% are at the wrong time.

As a result, this obviously leaves a guy with 20% +/- girls out of the approach that are open and willing to be seduced by you.

If this is correct, then it seems like there are only a limited amount women that you would have a chance with. Furthermore, even with the 20% you have a chance with, they say that the most that you could probably success with are 50% of them -and that's if you really skilled at picking up and dating women-. Therefore, this would obviously mean that the most lays that you could ever get out of all the women that you could ever approach is 10% -again, that if you are talented enough with picking up and dating women-.

So, with all that being said and assuming that all of this is true, then not only would this seem to be an unfortunate and sad reality of the world that we men live in, but also it has me concerned with the probability of screwing up all the women I had a chance with. I mean, yes there are 7 billion people in this world and the majority of them are actually women, but still it's not like someone such as myself can travel around the world and conveniently approach any women I want, whether they be from a foreign country, or even out of state, or even out of your county. right? The furthest places that I can travel to that are the most practical for me to date or even practice approaching girls are areas that are either within my town or the next town over or maybe next two towns over or the closest big city that is near my town. I know that LA county (which is where I am in) has a population of almost 10 million and I found out that according to Google PUBLIC data of populations of specified , within the following age ranges there are:
females within 20-24 age range => about 386,000
females within 25-29 age range => about 377,000
females within 30-35 age range => about 363,000
While this still totals up to being about over 1,126,000 females from ages 20-35, I still can't travel to all the towns in my county since some of the towns are just too far away from where I live. Therefore, I would say that at most of the towns within my county are not viable for me to practice my APPROACH and dating skills with women. This would mean that theoretically there would probably be about 500,000 females or less that are viable for me to approach. This still seems like a lot, though come to think of it, I don't think that I would ever be able to have enough time or even travel expenses in the future to approach all 500,000 of them throughout half of the LA county. I would then say that the most amount of approaches I could make towards girls would be 10,000. This still may be a lot; however, going back to the idea that a guy has 20% +/- girls chance with all the girls he approaches, taking 20% of 10,000 ultimately leaves me with 5,000 females between the ages of 20-35 to have a chance with. Do all these estimations seem reasonable?


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 18, 2014 11:03 pm 
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You're thinking about it too hard. Just plow.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 18, 2014 11:46 pm 
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You're thinking about it too hard. Just plow.
Well, it's just that I am worried about the possibility of no longer being able to have anymore to approach due having approached all of ones that I ever had a chance with in my life but screwed up with all of them. I mean, I hear that for a beginner like myself that out of about 100 girls I approach only 4 or 5 of them are those I have a chance of going out on a date with, and out of those 4 or 5 dates I only have a chance with one of them to get a lay. Furthermore, what if I screw up with all of the 4 or 5 dates along with not getting one lay from any of them? Then, I would have to start over with approaching about another 100 brand new girls until I get another 4 or 5 viable dates and hope that I don't screw up again with those chances again. Though, If do happen to screw up again with all these new 4 or 5 dates and still not get even one successful lay from this new batch of dates, then I have to start all over again with approaching another 100 brand new girls until I get another new batch of 4 or 5 dates for me to try. Even with this third new set of dates with girls I could still end up failing with all of them, and unfortunately move on approaching another 100 brand new girls and so on. This cycle could go on and on, but by the time I have done abooverview 500 approaches with girls close enough to my my age, then would I getting close to if not already reached my limit of approaching brand new girls? In addition, by the time I've had that many failed approaches with girls around my age, wouldn't I've already built up enough of a bad and widespread reputation of being such a failure or loser with girls that no girls regardless of whether or not any of them have already met me before will ever want me to approach them either again or even for the first time?


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 19, 2014 5:57 am 
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I feel like there are only very limited good single girls out there that are open and willing to be seduced and I worry that if I screw up with all of them then I'll never have a happy sexual/romantic life.


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 19, 2014 5:30 pm 
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.p ... ice%20girl
Use one of these until your game is tight.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 21, 2014 12:15 am 
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.p ... ice%20girl
Use one of these until your game is tight.
You know, other people on this website like you have already been saying that I should have sex with a hooker. Well, I say no way! I'd rather be consumed my maggots than have sex with a whore. Otherwise, it would end up being my newest low. Besides, prostitutes are bound to have STDs compared to women who are not. Not to mention, I would have to pay at least hundreds if not thousands to have sex with a reasonably good-looking woman.

Anymore advice would be greatly appreciated.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 21, 2014 6:54 pm 
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You don't need a hooker. I'm sure you're aware of the 0-10 rating system we have for girls. 0 is for the deformed and truly unattractive, 10 for someone who's physically perfect that you'd be down to fuck.

Girls have that rating system for guys, however their criteria for deciding this sexual value is based both on looks AND attitude. That's what learning game is all about. The cool thing about this is that

Until you improve your game you won't be able to bang and maintain a relationship with a girl who's otherwise out of your league. HOWEVER with that said, there's a scarcity of men with good game (i.e. a scarcity of especially attractive men) hence you have to adjust your statistical model, as well as your expectations and behavior, to accommodate this fact.

The "practice girl" isn't a whore. She's merely an unattractive girl that you have sex with out of the easiness of doing so while you endeavor to improve your personality, physical fitness, and charisma to the point where you'd be able to bang a hot chick and maintain a relationship with her.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 21, 2014 6:55 pm 
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On some level I'm sure you already know this. You're just not man enough to do anything about that.

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