Rejection and saving face, how would this sound?



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chaosflux
PostPosted: Wed Mar 26, 2014 8:33 pm 
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If you ask a girl out and she doesn't give you a straight answer (means no in my book), how would this come across?

"Okay its your call. No reason to be concerned there's plenty of people I can go with. Enjoy your evening."
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There are a few reasons she may not be giving you a straight answer, it doesn't necessarily mean no. You man have to just put a little more work in. Otherwise, I'd say something cocky. Might get her attention. If not, who cares? You can walk away with your head held high.

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Melodical
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You're making her the selector, that's your role. Think of the interaction as YOU screening her as a potential girlfriend and barrel through till you have established that frame. If she still refuses to show interest there are no end of "face saving" techniques for newbies to use as support till their inner game is sorted.
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You're making her the selector, that's your role. Think of the interaction as YOU screening her as a potential girlfriend and barrel through till you have established that frame. If she still refuses to show interest there are no end of "face saving" techniques for newbies to use as support till their inner game is sorted.
This.

Also. I personally do not believe on "saving face". If she's not game then too bad. She doesn't know what she's missing.

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More importantly, why do you want to save face?

Saving face means you are attached to the outcome. A true player doesn't give a fuck about pride.
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Melodical
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More importantly, why do you want to save face?

Saving face means you are attached to the outcome. A true player doesn't give a fuck about pride.

I agree with Hunter but there is on exception and that's when you are seen to blown out on an approach by other potential girls in the venue. I suppose it's the opposite of pre-selection a sort of "pre-rejection".

This will lower your value.
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I disagree. Most extreme example i've had: I had a girl reject me and throw a drink in my face once because I escalated too quickly and she didn't like me. I used it as an opener on a girl who witnessed it and was curious as to why the girl had freaked out. I told her she was an ex girlfriend. Number closed and fucked her on Day #2.

Just get better at recognising when a girl is not interested.
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