Herrow, I'd like to pair a couple or more opinions to this unbelievably unhinging problem I have. Age .. 27 and feeling exasperated at times. Feeling like I'm not happy with where I am in life and I get this WITHOUT the help of alcohol FML right? haha anyway it's a miserable fact that's affecting me and I can't change it without changing my lifestyle. So, I go out and play a bit of sports. At the end, I'm high on Oxygen and nearing death. I speed on the road, and frequent cloud 9. But after the high wears off, I fall into this depression. It's not deep, like other people but I get it often. I can't hide from it, heck it keeps me deep in $hit. It's like checking into Hotel California. Well, I want to check out now. I don't want to hide it but it affects all areas of life INCLUDING GAME. I approach and then can't close, no f- no k- no #. What do I do? I'm stuck paddling in a psychological shit creek and any girl I approach will feel it.

It's almost like I've lost all standards when in shit creek - ANY girl will do HB6-10. And they feel it and therefore venusian artist DLVs.

What can I do? Depression makes me weak and I have no idea how to stand back up. I've tried only to be pulled in. Sometimes I feel like moving out and finding a new community, new people without people who used to know chooode me

It's a bit difficult to give good advice without knowing more, however I can tell you my experience. When my purpose in life was to make more money and get laid, I was REALLY excited at certain times when I was successful. Other times, I would feel very depressed. It was a lot of ups and downs. After a period of time, I got really good at making money and getting girls and I began to feel less fulfilled.

In my experience, any person who dedicates their life to selfish pursuits will eventually fall into some sort of depression or sadness. It is through giving that we receive. Also, the idea of using women simply to get laid is a very harmful experience for the woman. Men who hurt women will feel these effects unless they have a serious psychological disorder (sociopath, narcissist, etc..)

I would suggest for anybody who is feeling depressed and unable to get laid, to focus on giving to others, being of service to your family/friends/women/community and overall trying to better the world. It is through these actions that we start to feel happy.

Just my 2 cents...

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Depressed because I only realised haha at 27 that I was such a selfish person. Often I keep reflecting on the past, perhaps due to my affinity with nostalgia. It keeps hitting home. Nevertheless I keep referring to it and it makes me moody and sad and bahaha puts everyone around me into low state -> unattractive social value (USV)