I've heard a lot of people talking about an issue that all comes down to one thing--inner game.

A lot of confidence questions:

"What if I have acne?"
"What if I'm too tall?"
"What if I get nervous?"

A lot of these can be solved by working on inner game. Inner game is about self-love first and foremost. Sure, you can fake it til you make it and you'll get laid sometimes, but if you really want to attract women, you have to go out there KNOWING you are the prize, not them.

You have to work on your lifestyle and become the person you think you deserve to be. Quit your shitty job, cut out asshole friends, stop doing things to appease people and grow a backbone. When you say "fuck it" and approach the world with the realization that you own this shit, you will see your game increase significantly!

Game isn't just about memorizing openers and saying one-liners. Learning magic tricks and negs won't do everything for you.

I went out recently with a few Indian guys who were "PUA"s and although they spat all the right game and followed all the rules, I had to drag them away from almost getting beat down by boyfriends and slapped by girls.

Routines alone won't lead to success. If you want to talk shit, you have to be able to back it up. By this, I mean if you want to pretend to be the "cool guy" you have to know in your heart that you ARE cool and you ARE worth their attention.

Learn to accept yourself, build your positives and try and work on your flaws. Most of all, make the decision today that you are gold and you will be treated like a prize. You deserve respect and you will conduct yourself in a way that will garnish respect. You will walk tall, you will talk slowly, you will look people in the eye and you won't back down.

That's inner game.

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