I've been 3 months off porn and my erectile disfunction problems are over (I'm 19). I get hard during foreplay, thats amazing. I don't have to worry anymore about if my dick is going to get hard or not, if I'm going to feel aroused at the right time or not… I feel aroused whenever I'm making out and I KNOW my dick is going to work whenever I want.

Im pretty sure many people here have this problem. They can get hard to porn but not to girls. Sometimes they can get hard while kissing but it gets soft right when they go penetrate the girl ( you've experienced this right? and you thought it was because you were drunk or nervous…) Thats porn. Porn fucks up your libido. Its like, you masturbate everyday looking at porn, your brain gets used to it and starts associating sexual satisfaction as masturbating to porn instead of fucking real girls, so when it comes to fucking a real girl its like a weird situation for you body, it kinda doesn't recognize the situation and it doesn't send the stimulus to your dick get hard. Yea, basically you train your brain for masturbating to porn instead of fucking real girls.

And edging ( masturbating for hours without reaching climax ) fucks up your dopamine receptors. Dopamine is the substance that makes you aroused, crazy for real girls, crazy for sex… Edging makes your dopamine receptors saturate so thats why you have no libido when you're with a girl… BTW libido is not the same as urge to masturbate to porn. Its the urge to be with a real girl.

You remember when you were like 14 and you'd get hard by anything? Like you saw a hot chick in your class and you'd get hard right away? Thats your real libido, thats when your brain was wired to real woman… But you started to watch porn since then and now guess what… You don't have morning woods anymore right? You need a lot more stimulus to get hard and you don't even enjoy masturbating without porn… Your reward circuitry in your brain is just fucked up, you need bigger and bigger stimulus to get hard so when you're with an average chick its not easy to get hard.

Keep off porn and try to stay at least one month with no orgasm. That will reboot your reward circuitry in your brain and make your libido normal back again.

There are a couple of websites dedicated to this correlation of porn and libido. Check out Yourbrainonporn and Yourbrainrebalanced, they have plenty of information on this subject.