I like my girlfriend/main girl. Notice I said like and not love. I care for her, but I am still in college. My potential to be a college stud is good and I have experienced it my freshman year. However, I have fallen off the radar over the years and wish to get that life back. My girlfriend is average looking and she has certain perks. Basically, she is good relationship material. Monogamy isn't what I thought it would be. Seems like I have to meet certain rules and deny myself from chasing other women. Even if other women are giving me IOI's and they are more attractive than my girlfriend. I feel like a dick sometimes because of these thoughts, but I can't help it. I miss the thrill of the chase, the thrill of a new sexual partner, the thrill of my name being thrown around on campus as "Oh, you know Argenis, he is the man!".

Monogamy seems, well boring. I mean, we do activities together but since it is only one girl that I am supposed to bang, I feel like I have to repress certain urges towards other girls. It feels unnatural. I have tried asking my girl for a threesome and she has said that she has no intention of fulfilling such a fantasy. I have invested quite a bit in this girl which is why I haven't really broken up with her...what to do..

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If you're bored in the relationship, then break up with her and bang other girls. Don't cheat on her "just to see what you feel like" or anything like that. How long have you been together? Any relationship will have some bad times. I don't believe there is "a one" for everyone or any of that shit. If you want to stay together, you will, if you don't, you won't. Quite simple really.

Do you want to stay together with her? From the sound of your post I'm guessing you've been with the girl a fairly long time now (a year or two perhaps?). If that's the case, and you're still thinking purely in physical terms then it would suggest to me that either a) she's not the girl you should be settling down with, or b) you're not ready to settle down yet. Either way, I'd break it off. It's perfectly natural to still look at and think about other girls, but if you're basing whether you should stay with a relatively long term girlfriend based on looks alone, then something hasn't been going right so far anyway.

However, if you sit back and think about it and realise that, whilst it's natural and fine to have urges towards other women, you actually like this girl on a far deeper emotional level and wouldn't feel the same without her, then stay with her. But the tone of your post suggests that isn't the case.

No...I feel like the relationship isn't too bad. I just feel like I am still a little immature since I am only 22. She is about to be 21 this December. So we are both still young. It has only been 6 months. She has relationship qualities, maybe it's my commitment issues.

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