Hey everyone. I signed up some time ago but haven't been active for a while and I've made little progress with women, except I sometimes flirt now or speak to random women (in the train for example). Which is a little progress, but not the progress I want to see.

I feel like I need to do other things first, to get my confidence up and running.
These things are the following:
Quit cigs (day 11 now)
Stop PMO (day 11 as well)
Treat my weed addiction
Start working out
Graduate my first year of college

I have a feeling that when I succeed in all of these, I will feel much better and happy about myself and I know that's going to help me. Then I can continue with PUA.

Thanks for taking the time to read this, and if you have any similar experiences you'd like to share then I would be glad to read them. Constructive feedback is also much appreciated.

Good man.

Setting goals for yourself that you can attain is the best way to boost confidence in yourself.

Realize though, that even when you do accomplish those things, you are still you. Be confident in yourself now. You are a bad ass mother fucker. You are an amazing person with or with out those things. Keep that mind set and watch yourself become the person you want to be.

Thanks Majikal, it's great to hear your advice.

I actually have a very relaxed feeling at the moment, I started feeling great and very positive because of numerous things in my life ocurring at the same time. The feeling that I have now is one I haven't had in a while. It's like a burst of light... those are my feelings.

Now I'm going to listen to still got the blues by gary moore, that makes me feel like a real man.

Edit: In the fucking moment! I forgot to add: that line made me laugh out loud. haha