I'm a thin guy, I mean a REAL thin guy. I know that women hate skinny men and unless they're fat or gross, they won't date a guy who isn't muscular, mesomorphic and tough. That isn't me, at least as far as looks go.

I can dress well, learn all the game in the world and have mad social skillz, which I probably don't, bu I still have something holding me back. What is it? It's my appearance. I used to lift weights, but stopped because I hate it. I have considered getting back into it again, but even then, I just got veiny. I'm really damn thin, and I always have been and probably always will be. I don't really care, but it saps my confidence knowing that chicks only dig the beefcake dudes who are like 200+ lbs of pure muscle. I'm tall, which is nice, but being tall and thin does not get hot girls.

And I'm not willing to settle for ugly or fat chicks either. I want a hot girl. I have the game to get one... IF I bothered approaching them. I just can't be bothered anymore, since in my head, it's a loss before I even make the approach anymore.

I'm not blaming women either, just ranting. Being skinny sucks for getting women.

excuses are tools of incompetence, used to build monuments of nothingness, and those who specialize in them seldom accomplish anything.

Once we accept our limits, we must go beyond them.

You CAN mold your body, and your mind into whatever you choose.

Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life.

You SAY you won't settle for anything less than a hot girl.

I guess you just don't want her bad enough.

Your goal is not to look for sex or a woman but merely to look for and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

You must tear yourself away from the safe comfort of certainties that are not getting you laid!

Stop being a pussy, the world has enough of them already.

BE A MAN!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Thanks dude, I appreciate that. Solid advice, right there.

I don't like whining or crap like that, it's not really my personality but it just pisses me off that I'm handicapped with women on the basis of something I can't really control. I eat like a pig, and when I did exercise, it was just weights, nothing else. Now I'm completely sendentary.

I know I have the inner game to do well, if I could get past this hurdle. You're right, it's totally within me... my mind is getting in the way of my ability to approach and hook up with beautiful chicks, no question there. I'm definitely my own worst enemy on that.

It's weird because people often think of really skinny dudes as being dorks or wimps and my personality is nothing like that. I don't even really see myself on the inside like that. I just wish I could show that side of myself to women, before they discriminate against me before I even open my mouth. And yes, I do gotta get back into weights again.

Now your talking.

Key word PROTEIN!

You have to eat big to get big. You hear this all the time, but very few actually take it to heart and employ the practice.

If you want your time in the gym to count you should increase your protein intake up to 2 g X body weight. So if you are 200lbs and are trying to climb to 220lbs you should be eating around 450 g of protein a day.

And Bro, there are plenty of hot girls at the gym to keep you inspired!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Your premise is wrong.

Your problem isn't your skinniness. I guarantee I'm skinnier than you, I have a BMI of 15.7.

Here's some facts:

1) Some girls love skinny guys. I've had plenty of girls compliment me on how skinny I am (And they were all HB8+). In fact, I've found that for the most part, skinnier (hotter!) girls care less if you're skinny. The only girls who, in my experience, are *that* bothered about it are the larger ladies because they worry that if you're out with them you'll make them look even fatter.

2) Most girls don't care that much about looks. If your game is good, your weight isn't going to matter that much anyway. Ok, there will be some girls that it is a turn off for, but that's true of any body type.

3) As a skinny guy, it's easy to wear clothes that make you look a more average size.

4) However, I've found it better to ignore point 3. Why do you think models, even male models are skinny? Because they can get away with wearing pretty much anything and have it look good on them. Use your size to your advantage and wear stuff that nobody else in the club could even think about pulling off.


The problem is that it's a hurdle. I see it all the time and you know what will happen? You'll keep pushing the boundaries. You're thinking "I'm too skinny" when you get to a better weight you'll think "My hair isn't cool enough, I need to wait for it to grow before I go out sarging", when that's sorted you'll move onto something else. These kind of mental hurdles are simply a form of procrastination. It allows you to put off going out and meeting people until some undetermined point in the future when you're "fixed" and use that as a justification for not going out *now*.

Live in the moment, be happy with who you are.

Yep two diet plans you want to be looking into - first one is that of a body builder/athlete; lots of protein to try and pack some muscle on. If you're ridiculously under skinny, you might also want to go on a high fat diet for a short period just to try and get a bit more body fat up. My uncle was put on one such thing when he was having cancer SPAM to try and keep his body fat and his energy up - basically lots of double cream and ice cream and stuff like that. Not great long term, but might just get you a bit of meat on your bones if you do it for a couple of months.

Also, I think you're going too far on what you say about muscular guys. Generally male models are skinny. They might have a sixpack, but they haven't got much muscle, certainly not "200 pounds of pure muscle" as you say. You can get plenty of women by being athletic but not large, and plenty of women by being average. My hottest female friend once said to me "oh guys are lucky, you don't need to worry about your bodies". She usually goes for guys who are if anything slightly overweight!

If you are going to do a high fat diet you NEED to do plenty of cardio excersise. If you don't you'll get high cholesterol and visceral fat that builds up around your heart. My dad, who's skinny like me was told this by his doctor. Although he's in good shape and not fat, he was at risk of fat building up internally long before he showed any external fat appearing. It's a genetic thing, if you find it difficult to put on weight, and eating doesn't add fat in the visible places it's still going somewhere, and that somewhere is on the inside, which is very bad for your health.

Be careful!

girls don't "only dig beefcake" guys at all. That's more a male perception. And how many guys are really beefcakes? Sure if they're looking for a 'wild fuck' they may go for a guy who looks like that, but a lot of girls are turned on by intelligence and style too. In general girls are looking for someone who seems fun - thats the biggest attractive property. confidence helps too. but skinny guys can get that too. I know guy who very successful. He's bald, spindly, dresses like someones dad, but he's very funnyh and entertaining and gets chicks easily. can be very funny, attentive and charming and knows a lot about drinks and bars and this and that, and it works.