Guys who are defeated by AA, and Solo game do not have the same filter as same as men who are succeeding. I spent a long time trying to find the "cure" for AA it doesnt exist. I still have AA as bad as the first day. I still fear going out solo. But the difference in being someone with skill and someone with no skill is when you are preparing to go out solo, or you are hit with AA when you are baller you see it as an opportunity to overcome and remind yourself how baller you are. You see it as OPPORTUNITY. Failure is a chance to succeed despite failure. When you go out even though you are afraid of solo game you think "Fuck yeah im acting despite my emotions i'm not controlled by my emotions im going to succeed where others wouldnt im fucking baller" When you have AA its actually easier to approach than to chode because if you approach you are going to be reminded that you are baller, reminded that people like and want you, reminded that you have amazing skills, its an opportunity to remind yourself how cool you are. When you suck however you see it as an opportunity to be defeated, instead of an opportunity to rise above defeat, you see it as a situation to remind yourself how little skill you have, how people dont like you.

But you can change this mindset. You can hack the system. When you go out and you suck what you are really doing is running around trying to get the refference experience to develop positive mindsets that will keep you motoring threw. Example of hacking the system is when you go out and everyone rejects you. I think to myself "Fuck yeah im hacking the system. I'm motoring through despite the results and my actions arent dictated by emotions they are dictated by my knoledge of what it takes to be a successful person.... THIS REMINDS ME THAT IM BALLER. Being baller isnt defined by your results. its defined by having the behaviors of someone who gets results even when they fail. Every failure is an opportunity to rise above. Successful people arent made by success they are made by succeeding despite failure were others have failed.

Hack the system... see everything as an opportunity to remind yourself of how baller you are. See every failure as an opportunity to succeed despite and remind yourself that you are a baller.