I have heard different 2 ways to DHV when she gives you eye contact.

1. Be sure to be the first to look away in a cool manner. That way you create mystery and she will want your attention.

2. Keep looking at her. That way you demonstrate confidence and show that you are not easily intimidated.

I have used # 1 for most of my life but it really has not payed off. But it might work if you're at a party and doing this for the entire night, but not if you're at the mall, park, or gorcery store, knowing you won't see her again.

Recently I have been doing # 2 more often, and have been successful, the woman usually smiles, and/or say's hi without breaking EC. If you don't break I contact the woman will usually communicate alot through her eyes.

Any suggestions, or comments?

Hold eye contact and give a slight smile. Then game on.

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Ari: It does matter what you think. What are you talking about, you’re part of the team baby, come on. I mean I gotta know what you think so I can get you to think what I think.

Looking away makes you look weak and insecure.

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I now as a rule always make sure they stare away first, not in a creepy weird way but a playful way, I actually went up to a HB7 who started giving me EC and said

"man you suck at stare outs"

she giggled was nice feeling rather than just looking away and not looking back lol

say hi

seriously

say something!!

I've gotten into the habit of shifting into a suspicious look. I turn my head side-ways and smile slightly.

Doesn't matter what you do, just don't look away. You can do an Eyebrow Flash, which is a way of saying hello without saying it. A good newbie mission to become comfortable with this is to sit in starbucks or some public place, and try to make EC and then EBF. Most of the time the person will smile or EBF you back, or say hi verbally.

#1 only if you already know the girl (friend/ you've been gaming her for a while).. If you do it, look behind her and not to the side or the ground..

This gives the impression that you've spotted something more interesting behind her (silent neg).. If she turns around to see what you're looking at turn your back on her while she's not looking (double neg hit!!)..

Again this will only apply if you already know the girl.. If not stick to #2!

IS IT JUST ME or does it seem like every girl is always stealing a glance at me?

It has always been this way with me, but I think most of the reason is because I am THE ONE LOOKING at girls around me all the time.

I mean I enjoy getting the EC, but at times when it is overflowing, I don't know what to think because I dont know if it is a good thing or if it is because of me myself making the girls look at me when I look around for hotties.

Maybe to make that more clear: If you are not looking around you at all times for potential hbs, you wont notice them looking to EC you, but if you keep to yourself and bury your head in a book or your cellphone (aka sidekick), you're not going to notice the EC you could have been getting.

weird

Anyone experience this?