Self development is the way forward to attracting beautiful women:


Most guys feel like attracting women is all about impressing them and doing anything to make them like you? on a very small level this may have some truth perhaps. If you get right down to the core of this then you would know that working on your self from scratch will make a huge difference in regards to how women will look at you.


Women are so fucking smart they can tell in 10 seconds what a guy is all about just by observing his body language and his overall "vibe"... that's why working on all areas of your life is so important in regards to meeting & attracting a woman that's right for you. I discovered this through my own personal journey in pickup which till this very day never ceases to amazes me how intuitive women actually are towards how a man feels about him self. We have all experienced a particular time when we felt great and women where just looking over at us! it's almost magnetic and this is what self development can do for you permanently.


Tips for attracting women-


1) Work on your confidence in every way possible-


2) perhaps changing your social circle if it's not having a positive impact on your dating life


3) Start setting Goals: short term 3-6 months long term 12 months plus


4) join regular meetups groups: Improv classes, dancing, gym, public speaking,


5) Come out of your comfort zone!! do things that scare you


6) Take up positive thinking- motivational speakers are great... Brian Tracey, Les Brown, Anthony Robbins, watch at least 10-30 mins a day of motivational talks.


7) help others in anyway possible: maybe you can encourage your close friend to improve him self.. this has a huge positive effect on building your inner-game happiness etc.. helping others.


Stop caring what others think about you


9) Don't avoid rejection - it' a process that we all encounter when reaching success with women and life in general


10) reward your self- This could be having a nice take away or a drink once in a while don't over do it lol



Hope this helps as it really had an impact on my life.

Personally I don't think its possible to change your inner game and confidence directly. You can't think yourself into confidence. These things usually come about for most people by their brains experiencing repeated success. I've spent the last few weeks meditating (literally) on this issue and just transformed my inner game in a way which I have not read about on any forum or heard anywhere by anyone.

I think self confidence/self belief/inner game come about when we decide to let go of whatever it is that is holding us back. I say this because at our core we are naturally happy, optimistic, confident people. Its just our natural fucking state. Sadly our life experiences and the learned beliefs, thoughts and attitudes are literally imprisoning this natural light to shine out from within us. Is this so hard to believe? We were born naturally, extremely happy and confident. The key word is happiness. I truely believe, and my recent experience of self discovery has convinced me, that our confidence comes from our happiness. The happier we are the more confident we are. And the same is true the other way.

Just do what makes you happy. The act of approaching a woman, any woman and telling her directly, sincerely and genuinely, without fear or doubt that I think she looks amazing and I am interested in getting to know her, just fills me with so much happiness energy. Even now just imagining it makes me feel great. When I'm at work I imagine approaching gorgeous girls and I'm literally going through scenarios, possible conversations, her questions/shit tests and my hilarious answers. It fills me with so much energy. So much happiness.

My approaches are so much more successful now. I'm literally walking around as if I've gained super powers. Women are responding to this shit like I'm beeming something out of my eyes. Its unreal. Just the fact that I can do this is setting me apart from 99.99% of guys out there and that realisation is further fuelling my energy, my passion, my happiness and my confidence. Think things that make you happy. Imagine things that make you happy. Do what makes you happy.

I could say so much more on this. I could probably write an article on how I did it. If you are interested in that article and look forward to me writing it then I'm sorry to say that you have just wasted 3 minutes of your life by reading what I just wrote. You didn't get it. If you did you wouldn't be reading anymore articles. You would be out there making approaches.

Hi Johnny!

My thoughts on your tips for attracting women:

1) Don't worry about working on your confidence. You can't do that.
2) Hang around with people that make you happy, positive, are supportive and understanding of your goals in life.
3) Never a bad idea to set goals. But don't get hung up on planning stage because thats easy to do.
4) Definately, definately, definately (that even the right spelling?) meet up with wings. It helps so much to have someone kick your arse to make approaches.
5) Don't do things that scare you - do things that excite and inspire you! Do things that make you feel good about yourself and build on that repeatedly. Keep doing it and prove to yourself that you can do it. You can do it bro. You can do it.
6) I think most guys know everything they need to know about positive thinking. Its just finding that place in your mind - expanding it with positive visualisation. See yourself attempting, achieving, succeeding. Do this over and over. All day and every fucking day. You know you are doing it right if you have a big grin on your face all day!
7) Its always nice to help people. Build up others around you. Be a source of positive energy. Someone people can come to for inspiration.

I'm not here to argue with anyone. These posts are just my opinions. Hope some guys benefit from the insight I've gained through my experience. All of these pick up posts are basically saying the same thing anyway. Hopefully I've communicated it in a way that has sunk the message into someones mind. Once you have got the message don't keep reading. Go out and do it!

Peace.