i would like to see if anyone could give me an honest opinion of where they think im going wrong, im 21, slept with 7 girls, all of those times i was slightly tipsy or drunk and some of the sex was just bad, sexual anxiety sometimes stops me getting an erection and ive never been on a proper date or had a proper girlfriend, my game isnt bad, i can talk to girls, number close, kiss close and im funny as many girls have told me and im a good looking guy, girls always tell me im like mr perfect for them, YET!! the tens i want never seem attracted to me, i will say i am very fussy and picky in which girl i pursue as i feel i deserve the best and that runs through every aspect of my life, but with girls am i being to nice? am i not pulling the trigger quick enough and getting stuck in freind zones?, or is it all in my head and my inner game is lacking confidence, any advice would be greatly appreciated

Yea, I'd say you are probably playing it too safe. You are trying to be picky, then when you get around the hotties you are like "Ok, this could be the one, don't fuck it up!" And you don't really put forth enough of yourself or invest in her the way you would need to in order to win her attention and affection. Then she friendzones you like she does all the other guys she's not fucking.

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Yeh what you said sounds about right thanks for the reply puaninja