Depression. I fucking lived there not to long ago. I've seen the dumps. Fortunately i have never been there long term.

I've got no social circle so i'm traveling to bars alone. I can handle myself somewhat well socially now. Thing is at the bars i get choked with AA and fearing everyone else at the bar will see me fail. Not being able to open i fall into a depressive state and end up worse. At that point i'm just paying bars to feed me alcohol while i feel miserable.

When i run into people i know at the bars i get a boost from hanging out with them and i do much better.I know your thinking than just hang out with friends. I've tried that most wont respond to my calls. Besides i want to learn how to beast at a bar alone.

So i'm asking how do i get myself feeling great and confident in the bars and gain momentum to push myself into a great night.

Things i'm planning to do is daygame more often and get more comfortable with speaking to random chicks.
Converse more with strangers on the way to a bar to get me in a social mood.

Other than that i'm lost what do you guys do to keep your spirits and confidence up. I'm tired of pussing out at bars.

Hey, no problem. You sound like you have a pretty good grasp of the game, your shortcomings and obstacles, and what you need to do to help overcome them. You're on the right track.

I tried to create a network of wings so I had partners in crime when I sarged. It actually worked out okay for a while. But sometimes they were busy, or would puss out, or I'd ignore their calls because I was busy or what not. It was never 100% effective. At the end of the day you have to be prepared to solo sarge. But that doesn't mean you always will, you can still find wings.

Try finding wings at the bar. Open a male set and tell them you came there to try to pick up some random chicks and you want them to help you. Now you are showing you are social proof at the bar, and also recruiting wings to help you become even more social proof as you sarge women.

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Honestly never thought of that. I've had one long term wing who was very unhelpful. I realized i built him up while he really did nothing for me. But fuck yeah start using acquaintances to catapult me to greatness. I've got the need to help people and i realize now that shit puts me back. I will definitely use this. I appreciate the response.