I claimed that I didn't give a fuck about a girl and I was fine with her hooking up with other guys because she was too attached to me and I wanted to have freedom without her feelings getting hurt and what not. But, when she has another dude (Just like i had hoped for) i get a small wierd feeling in my stomach. I think it must be jealousy! Is it possible for a guy to have sex with a girl daily, and not get jealous when she is with another guy? Is a small amount of jealousy natural for humans or can some people really feel no jealousy towards girls. If somebody feels no jealousy towards girls are they missing out on the sincerity of human relations? Does anybody actually feel no jealousy, if so how did you go about doing it, what are the pro's and con's?

Honestly, I think you will ALWAYS be a LITTLE jealous even if it is a sliver of jealousy. I know because that is me. I had my heart broken once and after that all my jealousy left me. I stopped giving a shit, my outlook completely changed on jealousy.

I rarely ever get jealous and when I do it's only a very tiny bit. At that point I just blow it off like it's nothing and the feeling subsides. I just say in my head, "this is fucking stupid, no point to being jealous, what a waste of time" or other sayings with a similar theme.

I broke up with a girl and she instantly started dating someone else. Which gave me a little jealousy and after a couple of days. Eh fuck it. Plenty more, no point is worrying about that.

sounds a lot like me, but the whole not giving a shit act is really great for now when we are just going out and partying and everything. Not to skip too far into the future, but someday we might actually need to grow up and care about how people feel and care about people, especially girls. I'm not meaning to call out your outlook on girls, because i have the same one as you, but when do we stop "not giving a fuck" and open up our feelings again? we cant just not give a fuck forever,

No, I understand what you mean. You can care about a girl but I don't jealousy will be as much of an issue anymore because it's a mindset. You can start opening up to girls whenever you feel you are ready to. That doesn't mean you will automatically be jealous.

I still care about girls and treat them good. I still can be hurt but just not as bad anymore because I take shit really slow. You just have to make sure the one you find is really worth getting close to. Don't jump in head first because of a pretty face.

If I like a girl I'm never free from jealousy. It comes knocking at my door often, but fortunately I rarely let it in. But I can relate to people who get SUPER jealous, I can understand how easy it might be to descend down that slope.

If you never feel jealousy then I think something is wrong with you really, it just depends on how you handle it.