In my quest to get better with women, I've come across many Non-PUA Naturals. I've hung out with them for a time and they tell me different things each when it comes to getting women and it's pretty interesting what they've told me.

Natural 1: It depends on everything. There are times when I've just said "Let's have sex!" but joking about it and I've actually gotten laid.

Natural 2: You can't be so obnoxious and Crazy, man! You gotta be serious and make her feel good!

Natural 3: Just go to Footlockers and sit on the bench and they'll just flock around you! ( I overheard this one )

Natural 4: Everyone has their own style.

Natural 5: You gotta treat them all equally. You can't expect good news nor bad news neither.

Natural 6: Don't go to them. Wait for them to go to you.

These guys sure have different beliefs about women. What do you guys think of this?

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Natural 1 is really a "go for it" type. He must be getting laid a lot, and probably blown out a lot too, he just doesn't care about that.

Natural 2 is a sensitive one. He surely knows how to compliment a woman.

Natural 3 and Natural 6 must be really good looking, or have high status if girls just randomly open them.

I agree with Natural 4. Everyone has his own style, and you need to develop your own in order to become really successful.

Natural 5 is the definition of abundance mentality. That guy must be getting laid a lot, though he could have difficulties with serious relationships.

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Not really that surprising. I could give six "non-naturals" a particular routine to do. Two might have success and pull the girl. Two might have limited success. The other two might crash and burn completely because it's just not their "style".

The first quote is true of pretty much everything in life, not just pick up. Everything is dependent on everything. What is going to work for person A is entirely dependent on all sorts of things such as the sort of person Person A is, the type of personality he has, what he's looking for, the type of girl he's talking to, the location he's talking to the girl and all sorts of other variables.

In many ways there are too many variables, and if you try to analyse them all, you'll just go round in circles as you can't try to prepare for every small outcome. The best thing to do is have a few general things that you can apply to most situations - so for instance, know what sort of person you are, what sort of vibe you're trying to give off, and what sort of 'material' or questions/routines/pick up/methods/conversation works well for you. Then apply that to whatever situation you're in. But like is said a lot on here - nothing you read on this forum will definitely work for you. If it works for you, it might not for me. Different people; different approaches, different results.