Guys are clueless.
That's about it what I got to say.
Guys are just clueless about what makes women want to run after them, hide in the bushes to see them, call them in the middle of the night because they want to talk to them and just generally be crazy about them.
I don't teach you "How to get the woman attracted to you". What I teach you is how to make the woman go CRAZY over you.
I'm talking about she loses her mind because she can't stop thinking about you.
I have a confession to make:
I break women's hearts.
I do.
I'm ashamed to admit this, but here's the second interesting part of this:
They love it.
You see, the weird thing is, every woman wants a man that she can be crazy about.
That she can cry over, that she can really feel that this is the man of her life.
And when a woman meets me, that is exactly who I am to them.
Someone who she will remember for the REST of her life.
I learned to do this by following a few simple rules, and I want to teach you those rules today.
Learning this requires time to learn, to practice and to master. But here's the general overview of "Make her go crazy over you system"
RULE FOR ATTRACTION #1: Allow her to impress you
An average guy out there, the not volcano confidence guy thinks that the way to get the woman is to impress her by all of the things that HE has, the job he does, the stuf he knows, the money he has etc.
While that can be true on some part, the mistake that guys do is they do it too much – so the woman get's turned off by it.
Instead, you want to lean back, and allow her to impress YOU.
Let her talk about herself, about her dreams, her hopes, her desires – her way of seeing the world.
One thing is true – Women LOVE themselves. They love looking at themselves in the mirror, they love hearing good things about themselves, they love to fill up their ego.
So tune in, allow her to tell you how great and perfect she is.
HOWEVER, I do want to mention one distinction: Frame everything she's saying as if she's trying to impress and seduce you.
When you're talking, ask her:
"So what's so great about you? You're obviously good looking, but look around, there's a lot of good looking girls around (women know this on some level, show them that you know it too). What's something that makes you special?"
Girls dig this word: SPECIAL.
"I want to feel special to him"
"I want to meet somebody special"
Yabadaba fucking du.
So let's talk about being special, but YOU tell me what's so special about you.
This turns the focus off of you, and put's the spotlight on HER. So she can be the princess, but in a way that is trying to impress you. So often, she will get insecure about herself, and forget about your insecurities.
You dig?
RULE FOR ATTRACTION #2: TEASE HER ON WHAT SHE SAYS
So she's talking about herself, right. Now what? Well, this is a GREAT opportunity to turn the cards around and BUST her balls on what she says.
When she's talking about herself, you have her in a volnurable moment. So she is either so full of herself, or she's kind of insecure about what she's talking about.
In this part, you do 2 things: LISTEN and OBSERVE.
Listen to the words she's saying and how she's saying it. If she say's: "Well I have a great sense of humor" you say:
"Wow I said say something nice about yourself, not to brag. You know it's not cool to brag – I don't like stuck up women" You smile and wink at her.
You don't have to do too much with the teasing part. Just so you avoid the "logic" in the conversation. She's not on a job interview, but she's also not on "make-fun-of-me-show". Be cool with this, be easy.
And remember, the recipe for this is listen to what she's saying, and make a comment from a different perspective. In this case, it was making fun of her.
RULE FOR ATTRACTION #3: Be a challenge
Guys really mess it up with this one. When they start talking to a woman, that's like "this is it – I'm going to talk to her ALL night (or day)".
You kind of want to avoid this.
Because the cat doesn't want the ball, she want's the chase of the ball.
Makes sense?
So don't cling on her, set yourself as a challenge.
If you did ok with the teasing part, she is going to want to get to know you better.
So what you want to do is actually opposite then what other guys would do.
If a girls likes a guy, she will go far just to get in touch with him.
Doing this made women call me in the middle of the night, saying they were calling to just "see what I'm doing".
Seriously?
So here's what you want to do:
Decline the first advance of interest.
If she says: "Wow I really like you". You DON'T say: "O I like you too, I think you're really sweet."
Instead, you want to say: "Well thank you, I like myself too" And you smile and wink to her.
Challenge her on what she says
If she says: "I have a great sense of humor" You say: "Really, I somehow can't believe that. Prove it"
Talk to other women
This is really a big one. Women, as strange and normal as they are, don't like a guy who has NOBODY wanting him. So if she senses she's the only one who talks to you or is interested in talking to you, she will go "Po-po" and by-by to you.
So instead, talk to other women.
Walk up to random women and strike up a conversation with them.
If you have challenges with approaching women, then I suggest you try this technique and get rid of your fear:
www.volcanoconfidence.com
Make her wait
Women are use to getting what ever they want from guys – at an instant.
Women know ok, they know how to dress themselves so only her best parts show – and they KNOW how to play with guys.
Guys on the other hand are kind of oblivious to this.
They let themselves be drawn into the net that women make for them.
Big problem with this?
Women don't respect you, don't like you and won't sleep with you.
Duh.
So instead, make her wait for you. Make her wait for her text message, make her wait for your phone call, make her wait for your time and for going out with you.
Use the words: "I can't at that time, maybe later". As you're talking, mention you have to go soon.
If you're out, get into the conversation with other people and make her wait to talk to you.
Make yourself scarce, like there isn't enough time to talk to you.
She's going to value you a lot more, and she'll want to get to know you a LOT more better.
RULE FOR ATTRACTION #4: BE CONFIDENT
This is tricky. And elusive for most guys. What do you mean be confident?
Well, I have a definition of confidence that you can use.
Here it is: Confidence is the ability to fully express who you really are, and still be liked for it.
And I'm talking about social confidence here, not confidence in business or sport.
Being confident around women is your ability to be who you are, to feel worthy and like you mean something, being detached of any outcomes and just being yourself.
Having challenges with this?
I made a system for you to become more confident around women. It's called The Six Colors Of Confidence™ and you can check it out here:
the-six-colors-of-confidence-system-thi ... 50604.html
You can sign up for a free training that I'll be doing for guys, so you're invited.
So there you have it, the 4 rules for attraction. There are more of them, of course, but if you do only this, you'll do ok. Apply them, and see your attractivness skyrocket.
I'm out of here,
Phantom
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