How are we gentlemen?

I would like to prop up my inner game to make me a better man and a more confident individual. Can you recommend and books or ebooks that would assist me with the above?

Im not looking for the marketed "Change your life with this book bullshit", but a book thats worth reading with valid points that make you stop and revaluate your thinking process. A book that is geared to make you an alpha with a winning attitude.

I'm not saying that I am a desperate, I just gave myself a goal this year to better myself as a person. My end goal for this is for it to assist my day to day life, working life which will then affect my relationships not only with women but with my friends and family for the better.

Any help is much appreciated, cheers