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| trick182 | PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 2:55 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat May 26, 2012 4:21 am Posts: 23 Yahoo Messenger: none AOL: none | | whats going on you guys.
so i want to talk about how you are able to overcome deprtession from a bad breakup. recently ive had my heart broken and i feel like this is really taking a toll on my inner game. lately my mind has run amuck and keeps over thinking everything. there are times where i keep telling myself that it'll be alrite and that this wasnt the first time ive had to deal with a heartbreak. at those times i pick myself up and feel better about everything. however most of the time my mind uses everything around me to bring me down. im falling behind in school, i have a bunch of homework to finish, and i have a job to hold. basically i dont have time to have a social life and time to go meet other women and i guess that makes me unable to get over this heartbreak. im really trying and its getting annoying/frustrating and i really need to overcome these problems since its making me have issues. also i keep feeling that this girl would probably be the only girl i couldve been with since i was able to game her at school and there are literally no other girls as attractive there.
i just need some advice because this is making me look insecure. however i make it seem like im ok on the outside and look optimistic and unbothered about it but i feel like this is messing with my frame and there are times where i feel like im about to burst
so guys tell me what do i need to do
thanks to any response _________________ too young 4 love
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| puaninja | PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 12:20 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Aug 10, 2012 12:27 pm Posts: 2817 | | First of all, you're not alone. I've personally been there, as have most guys at some point in their lives. It's okay to feel hurt and heartbroken after a relationship, even for guys. Guess what, we have feelings too! In time, the hurt will go away, just like when someone you love dies. It actually does get better in time. The memories and feelings are no longer as intense, and new memories and things in your life will overshadow that old shit.
If I was there when you wrote "this girl would probably be the only girl i couldve been with" I literally would've slapped your face. That's absurd. There is never just one girl that is the only girl you could be with. There are BILLIONS of women in the world. She's 1.
What you can do is embrace singleness and brag about how you are happy to be free and single now, even if you don't feel that way yet. This will help you to not come across as being a lonely heartbroken guy, which is a turn off. _________________ “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn
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| trick182 | PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 2:06 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat May 26, 2012 4:21 am Posts: 23 Yahoo Messenger: none AOL: none | | thanks puaninja i needed the advice
i dont think shes the only girl i couldve been with, im just saying it feels hard to get another because i dont have time for a social life because my schedule is pact.
this is not the first heartbreak ive dealt with, i know it heals in time but i want to heal it fast because i remember once that i was stuck on my ex for 2 years and i dont want that to happen with this girl. _________________ too young 4 love
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