Hello,

I'm at a crossroads. After my first serious LTR I decided to get into self-improvement, and game. I've made milestones. In fact, I've never been happier with my life, just plowing along.. things seem great.

I know this may be screamingly obvious, and you might laugh, but here I am.. getting quite constant success with woman (#'s, heavy kino, or closes). I worked hard for this shit though, and did the hard yards and work. Anyway. I took a girl home on the weekend, smoking hot, manners, smart, and as you guessed, single. You might be wondering why this is any different from the norm, but for me I stop at kissing typically. I have extremely high standards with girls, that even as a kid I thought I might never meet.

So I really do have a question for you guys getting constant success with woman.

How do you know you really want a girlfriend. Weather she is going to enrich your life more.. or hold you back from constant self-improvement.. Obviously it's a gamble and a big investment emotionally, either way.
I obey the PUA code of contact - To leave people better than when you found them.

I'm scared that this is the fork in the road, and I don't want every girl I take home to get here. She know's that I don't want a relationship, and she's still cool with it. Said I can invite her out whenever, and go over to hers whenever. But the truth is, I can sense the under-current. It's not a cool vibe - and I really hope someone who has been here before knows what I'm talking about and has some advice.

It would be much appreciated!!

Thank you

-D

This may seem sappy, but I think it's true. When it comes to pickup, follow your dick. When it comes to relationships, follow your heart.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Lol, I like it... never heard it put that way. The issue is my dick is a real asshole and plays tricks on my heart to get some.

Seriously tho... I think age should be brought into the convo. Under the age of 25 I think serious LTR are a fools errand. No body is well adjusted enough to make this work for life. If your heart finds a woman that your dick likes I say follow some common sense. I feel LTR are to find out if you want to spend "forever" (LOL) with her. So if youre young and just need to taste the world and see whats out there I say just follow your dick and you'll know when the time is right to follow your heart!

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"