| I was pondering about inner game the other day while going to an f-date with two hb9s. It was the second threesome in my life. I came up with an inner game method. I call it the "Johnny Bravo" mindset. Remember that cartoon?
This guy is a hopeless BAFC. If you don't know this cartoon watch 5 min. on youtube and you'll get what I mean, you don't need to watch more. Going into Johnny Bravo's faults in attitude and game is not the point here. What I want to touch on is his general frame of mind.
"I am the man! I am the best there is. Women love me! OH mama!" There may have been some occasions when Johnny broke down, but that's unimportant, it's part of what made his character human. The basics remain the same:
NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES JOHNNY GETS REJECTED, HOW MANY WOMEN HIT HIM IN THE FACE, HE GETS UP, COLMBES HIS HAIR AND GOES ABOUT HIS LIFE AS IF NOTHING HAPPENED (AND HE REALLY IS ALL NEW). THIS IS THE PROPER MINDSET TO HAVE.
Reality check:
Get this, for every hb that turned you down, there is a hotter one waiting for you! All fresh, new start, more willing, dtf. Probably, she is just down the road or even in the same building, club, bar, no further. And another down the next road. And another. How many roads does this world have? How many bars? How many buildings? How many beautiful women are in each of those at any given time? So the Johnny Bravo mindset is not about a cartoon character, it's about life in the field. For all his faults and BAFCness, Johnny Bravo has one trait that most men lack. He does not give a fuck! If Johnny Bravo had the least amount of game, he would have been the best pickup artist of all time. More on this inner game method to come. I am calibrating and filing on this one.
UPDATE*
the idea behind is no not lose confidence in your ability to improve. the main driver of success and results is unlimited motivation.
this is not a call for denial of your lack of PU skill! if you're not getting pussy, YOU are doing something WRONG, not them. and "i think she loves me!"
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