I know another thread about masturbation, but this is not just a thread about it in general, this is about the effect of it relating you directly to someone else.

Ok, so say you know a girl and find her physically attractive, would you say that when you masterbate over her you are subconsciously putting her on a pedestal and so from that point on whenever you meet her again, you will see yourself as having decreased in value relative to her?

not that you decrease in value to everyone but specifically to her.

And that If you don't masterbate over her than you will increase your subconscious sexual tension towards her which will work in your favour?


I hope that question made sense, basically you jack off to someone and put yourself at a physcological disadvantage to specifically them and no one else?

do you agree?

I have a theory that masturbation takes away the edge you have when sarging or dating, if you do it within a few hours prior to arging or dating; having said that, I admit to masturbating thinking about all (bar one night stands) women I have slept with PRIOR to sleeping with them. If anything, it helped me on a deeper level think of them as if they had already been in my bed, thus reducing pressure... If you jerk off thinking of a woman, that's taking her down from the pedestal and connverting her into a sex object...

You're not alone in this one bro! I once jacked off to this crazy fine girl (whom I didn't know yet) in my campus because of her massive tits + cleavage when she bent over (massive tits aren't common here in the PH). Anyways, after a few days, we finally met each other, and I definitely felt the weakness in my game since I "put her on a pedestal" thus making me feel inferior to her. Lesson learned is to never masturbate with people you're bound to meet. Only do it once you've fucked with em hahaha!